Overhearing that divorce was worse

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    darla
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    Terry,

    I know exactly what you are saying. Early on I had someone tell me they understood how I felt as they feel the same. I asked when & how she had lost her husband and she said “He divorced me.” I totally agree with you. There is absolutely no comparsion. What are these people thinking?

    Darla

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    missingwayne
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    I was in the lounge taking a break, and in walk one of my co-workers she was speaking to another co-worker. They were talking of divorce the first said it is the hardest thing to go through in life, except maybe losing a child, the other lady said she so believes too. This lady had mentioned that last year, it hurt then, now it is worse. She may have been through a divorce but you have something to do with getting divorce. She said today that getting a divorce is like pulling your heart out. I cannot believe they could be talking like that with me sitting there. Our hearts of all the people that has lost their mates fill like our hearts is bombed into a million people. There could never be a comparison.

    Terry

    I lost my Wayne in Feb 17, 2010

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