I had this feeling!!!
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July 27, 2012 at 11:32 pm #63186
nancy246
SpectatorMy thoughts are with you Teresa. You are doing everything you can for Dennis so he will have a peaceful journey. Love and hugs sent to you and your children. We are here when you need us. Nancy
July 27, 2012 at 5:15 am #63185marions
ModeratorTeresa…these are the most precious moments of all. May you continue to draw on your inner strengths and may peace be with you.
Hugs and love,
MarionJuly 27, 2012 at 3:04 am #63184topcatj
MemberHi folks
Dennis is nonresponsive but I still talk to him. His nurse tech Chaplin and social worker are God sends. He seems to be in no pain which I am grateful for
It was intense for him. It’s been emotional for the children and I
We have been married 24 years and three children-Lauren 24-Dennis. Kyle. 19 and Trevor 10. God bless you-all!! If it weren’t for this site I would of not had the knowledge to be able to see what was going on and get him help when needed. Thank you so much!
TeresaJuly 26, 2012 at 4:26 pm #63183cherbourg
SpectatorTeresa,
I’m sending hugs, love and prayers as you and Dennis enter this phase of the CC journey….
My heart is breaking for you…
Hugs,
PamJuly 24, 2012 at 7:10 am #63182marions
ModeratorTeresa…this is a very precious time for your and Dennis. Although, he may not respond verbally to your touch and caring expressions, know that it provides comfort and joy to him.
My heart is with you,
Hugs,
MarionJuly 24, 2012 at 4:58 am #63181lalupes
SpectatorThinking of you, Teresa. XX
July 24, 2012 at 4:37 am #63180lainy
SpectatorTeresa, you may not be able to ‘converse’ but please remember that he can hear you. Talk to him even if he doesn’t seem to hear, tell him that you love him and tell him that you are going to be ok. He will hear you. Glad Hospice is working out well.
Teresa, about 1 week before Teddy passed I just had to sit down and write a poem, I think you will relate:Time is growing closer, I can see it in his eyes,
Time is growing closer, but we’ll have no sad ‘goodbyes’.
Memories abound from our precious moments spent,
To God it is, I’m sending, the most “precious” package sent.These last few months of knowing, we’ve made a honeymoon,
In my mind a vision of an eternal, beautiful afternoon.
He is still my charming Prince, who taught me how to love,
And someday we’ll be together, in Heaven up above.I will see him riding stars, I will see him in the moon,
And someday you will see us dancing to our favorite tune.
He will touch my face so gently, like he’s known to do,
It’s not goodbye forever, with memories bad or few.All our love, my sweet one, is ours to hold so tight,
Until once again together on a mystical, magic night,
We will be again united to celebrate our dance around the sun,
And know that our eternity together, has only just begun.July 24, 2012 at 3:42 am #63179topcatj
MemberThanks youre so kind…hes home tonite and resting. I got sad today cause I cant converse with him. The pain meds are probably the reason. I feel like Im slowly losing him. I would like to talk to him again. I made him smile though. A nurse I think will be here tomorrow. Hospice has been very good so far. Paitient and compassionate!
Again thank you!
TeresaJuly 24, 2012 at 1:11 am #63178nancy246
SpectatorDear Teresa, I remember these days vividly. Hold him, talk to him, sing to him, even if he is asleep. You will find strength you never knew you had for you are his wife, his best friend. May you both find peace. Love and hugs to you and Dennis.
NancyJuly 23, 2012 at 11:28 pm #63177marions
ModeratorTeresa…know that we are here for you, always.
My heart is with you,
Hugs,
MarionJuly 23, 2012 at 7:23 pm #63176darla
SpectatorTeresa,
You and Dennis are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let us know how things are going when you can.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaJuly 23, 2012 at 6:34 pm #63175gavin
ModeratorTeresa,
I’m sorry to hear about Dennis. Please know that we are all here for you and always will be.
Hugs,
Gavin
July 23, 2012 at 4:51 pm #63174pamela
SpectatorI am so sorry, Teresa. I will pray for you and Dennis.
Love, -Pam
July 23, 2012 at 12:13 pm #63173topcatj
MemberThank you Lainy!! The email was helpful. You’re such a good hearted person
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July 22, 2012 at 10:23 pm #63172lainy
SpectatorTeresa, I am so very sorry about Dennis, words cannot express. Absolutely we want your supoport on this CC site but right now we want to support you. I am e mailing you now. Sending you huge hugs and so much love. Sometimes winning the battle is knowing when our loved ones have had enough!
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