Dear Texaslady, I do know how hard this year has been for you, I lost my Teddy 2 1/2 years ago. I dealt with it by letting the bad stuff (CC) go and just thinking of all the good memories. I do feel he is around me and that gives me
great comfort. I believe you are truly your mother’s daughter and she is very proud of you and loves you very much. Time, it takes lots of time. I loved the Rabbi’s poem, thanks for sharing that. If you don’t mind I also have one I love.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain,
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die. By Mary Elizabeth Frye
For everything beautiful that you see
will bring a memory of me.