Hi Scraggles,
My mom developed ascities shortly after her diagnosis. Other than the appearance, it hasn’t bothered her very much although it can be a real problem for some people. It may be one of the things that has caused some shortness of breath for mom though.
She chose not to have it drained as our research showed that often you can drain it and it builds right back up again quite quickly. Another consideration was that each procedure increases the chance for infection which was really mom’s biggest enemy at the time.
As Marion said there is a wealth of information on this topic on this site so I am sure you will find what you need to help your mom decide what to do with her doctor’s help.
Good luck and I hope your mom is feeling ok,
Sharon