Checking in…and recalling the hurt.
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Hi Beth! It’s so good to see you again! Your’re looking good and sounding better! Yes, it takes time, it’s going to be 7 months for Teddy and I find I still cry at certain things but life does go on and we just deal with it. I will see how I do July 17th, that would have been our 17th anniversary. You know, Beth, Teddy comes to me in so many ways and I do feel him all around me all the time. I think that belief has helped he get through the worst of it. Some like my Teddy visit posts and I am sure some think I am some nut come out of it’s shell, but hey, what ever works. It is so good to see our Ladybug on here again, please don’t be a stranger and stay well.
Dear Beth, nice to hear from you. You are a brave and kind person to want to help people on this site with your knowledge and expertise. There are many new and young people who need you. I wish you all the best.
Hello all,
It’s me Beth, just checking in on you all. As I sit here reading over the posts over the last 5 months, I am reminded of where I was for the last 2 years. As most of you know, Dave passed away Feb 13th this year, the day before our 18th wedding anniversary. His battle became too much for my superman and it was time for a hero to say good bye.
I miss him more than I ever thought possible, and the days do not get easier, just makes the longing for him more intense. The peace I have found is that he is no longer in pain. That he no longer has to pretend that he is fine in front of our 10 year old little girl, and that he left me a legacy that will last me the rest of my life. So, as me and my family learn to live without Dave and adjust to our new normal, we try to help others, and gain strength from it.
I have just come out of the angry phase, and am starting to feel as though I want to make a difference in someones life, and try to help others cope.
Dave experienced every complication, and I dealt and researched with so many issues, so if there is ever a question anyone has for me, I am here.
My prayer is for peace for you all, that you never give up the hope, and that whatever comes your way, you know how to breathe through it.
HUGS TO YOU
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