Hi Ellen,
Welcome. Yes you are definitely in the right place here as you will get a load of support from all of us. I’m sorry to hear about your dad and I hope that the radiation works well and that the doctors can go ahead with his surgery. Your dad is in excellent hands and it sounds like his doctors have a plan in place, and I will keep my fingers crossed that the plan works for your dad.
We are all here for you, so please feel free to come here as much as you want, vent, ask questions, whatever you like really. We know what you are going through and how you feel right now.
My best wishes to you and your dad,
Gavin