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February 26, 2010 at 7:08 pm #35998rosemccuskerMember
kay, I am so sorry that you lost your dad after his very brave battle. My father died 2 weeks ago and my loss is very new and hard to come to terms with. However, because you will keep him safely tucked away in your heart, he will never be further from you than a heartbeat.
Our sincere sympathy to you.
Rose (carer)& Bob (cc patient)
February 26, 2010 at 12:33 am #35997jeffgriederMemberOur thoughts and prayers are with you Kay!
Jeff and Marc
February 25, 2010 at 11:40 pm #35996ajcarman72SpectatorI am so sorry for your loss Kay.
April
February 25, 2010 at 8:22 pm #35995darlaSpectatorDear Kay,
I am so sorry you have lost your Dad. My husband was only 62 when he passed from CC. I too was full of anger, regret, remorse etc., but have tried to let it go. They are all now in a better place, no longer having to suffer and fight this terrible disease that takes some from us so quickly. No words can easy your pain, but try to take comfort in knowing that your Father will always be with you in your heart & memories.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaFebruary 25, 2010 at 7:01 pm #35994gavinModeratorDear Kay,
I am so very sorry to hear the news of the passing of your dad. My sincere condolences to you and your family. I lost my dad in December so I know that pain that you are feeling right now.
My thoughts are with you and your family,
Gavin
February 25, 2010 at 1:15 pm #35993lainySpectatorDear Kay please accept our most heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dad. I always think dads don’t pass, they just go in to the next room and then watch over and take care of you forever.
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I’m writing this from Heaven.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there’s no more tears of sadness;
here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me
and said, “I welcome you.
It’s good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
they’ll be here later on.
God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night,
the day’s chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you…
in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years.
Because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there was some rain.
One thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
Together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
And now I am contented….
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.
When you’re walking down the street
and you’ve got me on your mind;
I’m walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.
And when it’s time for you to go….
from that body to be free.
Remember you’re not going…
your coming home to me.February 25, 2010 at 12:59 pm #3234kayMemberHi all,
It is with great sadness that I say my Daddy passed away Monday the 15th, unexpectantly. They say either a massive heart attack or massive blood clot. He died immediatly and in no pain. We were to go that Monday to see a new onclogist and Tuesday he was to get his MRI results back that said they were unclear that this was a return of cancer. Unfortunately, he spent the last few weeks thinking he was going to die based on inaccurate readings from his first onclogist. Also, he never told us that it would be a good idea to get a cardiologist because chemo does a number on the heart. Although, he was very good at sending us a bill.
As you can tell I am still kind of angry. Dad was only 62 and could have lived quite longer had someone been really monitoring him during his treatment. He had obvious symtoms that could point to heart or blood clotting problems yet all the doctors said “dont worry, it is nothing” little did we know for the last month he was actually passing away.
xo and god bless
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