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  • #18537
    darla
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    Oh Charlene,

    I know what you mean. All those “if only’s”. Keep rambling & sharing. We all know & understand and I think it helps to express those feelings and share them with others. Take care Charlene. You are in my thoughts. I hope you are doing OK.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    #18536
    celoi
    Member

    December 31st is fast approaching. My oh my, 2 years with my dad…..unbelievable. It seem as yesterday, I was making doctors appointments, going to get foods I thought he would like, visiting him….LIFE, just passed by so swiftly. “Memories” are just so wonderful to hold on to…(Just ‘rambling’ on with things thats on my mind now…..) May not make too much sense in writing as my mind is just wondering- If only my dad was still around….I would have hugged more, kissed more and just spoiled him more……..I really miss saying “Daddy” or “Hello Cutie”…and he would say..”Sure….)…. “Daddy”…. If I could have gotten one more hug……..

    #18535
    marions
    Moderator

    Dear Charlene….I think of you often especially, since we came on this board at about the same time.
    Much love coming your way,
    Marion

    #18534
    darla
    Participant

    Dear Charlene,

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts & feelings. I want you to know how sorry I am that you are feeling so sad and that I share your sadness & pain. It must be a “sad day” as my husband passed away a year ago Sept. 2 and I too am exceptionally blue today. You are so right, sometimes it is even hard to breath. I know it has been longer for you. I don’t think it will every go away completely. I guess we just need to accept it and learn to live with it. I’m just not quite sure how we do that tho’. I know how much you miss him as I miss Jim. Know that you are not alone and that together we can all manage to go on. We just need to take it one day at a time, one small step after the other.

    Take care Charlene and keep coming back here. The kindness, strength, love & support of all the good people on this site will give us the strength we need to go on.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    #18533
    celoi
    Member

    Haven’t wrote in a while…

    I am still so so sad due to the loss of my wonderful, loving dad. I get so sad I feel like I can’t breath sometimes.

    Missing him so much…..

    celoi
    Daughter of David Cook

    #18532
    teresa
    Member

    Hya charlene

    The way in which you speak of your father tells me, that not only was he your father but your best friend as well.
    Relationships like these are like stars in the sky, so special and last forever.
    Hang on to this, he is with you for always.

    love and light Alan’s mom

    #18531
    devoncat
    Member

    Charlene,
    I love the way you talk about your father. I am sure he felt and knew your love while alive and safe in the knowledge that you would always remember what a wonderful father he was.

    Kris

    #18530
    celoi
    Member

    “Father’s Day”…

    Everyday should be “Father’s Day”. I love(d) my father so much everyday. I am missing him more than ever…but I have no regrets.

    Charlene Eloi
    Daugher of David Cook

    #18529
    missing-u
    Member

    Charlene, it is with great sadness that I read your post. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear father. I am an only child myself and although I’ll be 41 soon, I always thought my Dad would live forever. He does so in my heart, but I so wish that he were still with us experiencing life. It was one year on January 13th that he passed into spirit.

    I wish you peace of heart and spirit during this difficult time and hope that you will draw comfort in your kind support of your father during his journey.

    Missing U

    #18528
    carol58
    Member

    Charlene, I think this was posted a while back:

    We Thought of You Today

    We thought of you today,
    But that is nothing new
    We thought of you yesterday
    And will tomorrow, too.

    We think of you in silence
    And make no outward show.
    For what it meant to lose you
    Only those who love you know.

    Remembering you is easy,
    We do it everyday.
    It’s the heartache of losing you
    That will never go away.

    I don’t know who wrote this…loving thoughts are with you.

    Carol

    #18527
    celoi
    Member

    It has been 3 weeks and it seem like 3 years. My father would have been 61 years of age yesterday. I just re-lived Dec 30th in my mind yesterday morning. Some say it gets easier with time. Each day, I just think of what would have happened at a certain time, if he was still living. Last Jan 20th, he called me and said he did not think he would see that day. Yesterday, he did not see. All I could say throughout the day as I thought of him, “My poor dad”.
    I know he is ‘resting’ with no worry, no problem. I just wished he was still here. He was so special to me. I am missing him more each day.

    celoi

    #18526
    jmoneypenny
    Member

    Charlene,
    I know how your heart is broken right now, and I wish I could make it better for you. Your memorial is beautiful – we should all be lucky enough to have fathers like yours.
    With you in sympathy,
    -Joyce

    #18525
    celoi
    Member

    It’s been 2 weeks and 2 days. I am missing my dad so much. Iwished he could have just kept fighting. At first, his attitude was so positive. I tried to help him remain positive. He was just tired. Tired of many things. Now his worries are all over. He is safe and at peace. No more dr’s, no more mind games, no more fighting…….

    http://www.mem.com/Story.aspx?ID=2203574

    celoi (Charlene Eloi)

    #18524
    kate-g
    Member

    Much love to you and your family Celoi.

    #18523
    maryanne80
    Member

    So sorry to hear of your loss. You Dad’s story was one of the first I read when we came on the site 17 months ago. We will pray for your family tha God will comfort you in this tough time. God Bless Mary Anne

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