Hello/ Story of Husband Diagnosed November 2015

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  • #23099
    marions
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    Theresa….I too would like to jump in and wish you a warm hello. I see some similarities with my husband, who had been diagnosed in 2006, attorney and law professor as well. The main difference, dear Theresa, is that treatment options increased multifold and Steve is benefitting from the newer developments. I wish for the best of luck with the current treatment.

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    Marion

    #23098
    gavin
    Moderator

    Hi Teresa,

    Welcome to the site and I am glad that you have jumped in with us and posted now. many thanks for sharing what you and Steve have and are going through with everything and I so know that this will be of great help to many.

    Please know that we are all here for you and will help if we can and I so hope to hear from you again.

    My best wishes to you and Steve,

    Gavin

    #23100
    debnorcal
    Moderator

    Teresa,

    I just want to welcome you to our site and wonderful family, and thank you for sharing Steve’s story. He is certainly in great hands with Dr. Lowery and the MSK team. Since I joined this site less than three years ago, I’ve been amazed and so encouraged to see so many patients managing their cc as a chronic disease. It wasn’t like that three years ago. I hope your husband’s latest scan shows that the pump is working. Progress is being made in treating this disease and Steve’s story is a good example of that.

    Debbie

    #23101
    lainy
    Spectator

    Dear Teresa, that is some good news!! I checked out Steve’s Blog and it is beautifully written. Is Steve a writer? I personally feel that writing things out and talking about it are both very cathartic. Keep up the great work and looking forward to reading some more great posts!

    #23102
    teresamaryde
    Spectator

    Dear Lainy, Darla and Catherine,

    Thank you for your warm welcome. I will be sure to post updates on how things are going. We are hopeful about the scans that Steve had this week. Last weekend, he was in a lot of pain and we went to the MSKCC Urgent Care on Sunday night. They did a scan then to make sure that there wasn’t a blockage. On Monday, his oncologist reviewed the scans and she and the research study radiologist think that some of the tumors are liquifying. We’ll know more this week when we meet with the oncologist and have the full report form the scans that were done on Wednesday.

    I also want to mention that Steve is writing about his experience on his blog, Now Without Hesitation (http://nowwithouthesitation.blogspot.com). I’ll be sure to post the link in the blogs section of the forums as well.

    Thank you all again for your warm welcome.
    Bet wishes,

    Teresa

    #23103
    middlesister1
    Moderator

    Dear Teresa,

    Welcome and thank you for sharing Steve’s story. It will help others and reinforces the importance of being treated at a center that sees many CC patients.

    My fingers are crossed for positive scan results.

    Best wishes,
    Catherine

    #23104
    darla
    Spectator

    Hi Teresa,

    I too want to welcome you and thank you for sharing Steve’s journey with CC. It gives hope and encouragement to others dealing with this illness. I am happy and amazed at how things have progressed and improved in the past 8 years since my husband passed away. There is so much more awareness of CC and how to treat it then there was back then. I want to believe that this site and all those who contribute to it have had a small part in making this happen. We can only hope that this continues and that some day all who face this disease will be able to manage it as a chronic illness. Your attitude and how you dealt with this will definitely help others.

    Please update us when you can and let us know how both Steve and you are doing.

    Darla

    #23105
    lainy
    Spectator

    Dear Teresa, welcome to our remarkable family and thank you for Steve’s story. It sounds like you both have done everything just right and it is with a wish and hope that eventually Steve can have what all the patients want here and that is surgery. Funny thing to want so bad, right? It is great that you are able to treat this CC as a chronic condition as that is the best way to conquer it. So glad you have come forward and joined us and I feel your post will be helpful to others. Please keep us updated on Steve and am wishing you both the very best.

    #1591
    teresamaryde
    Spectator

    Hello, I’ve been a member of this site for nearly a year. It has been a wonderful source of information and resources for me and my family. Thank you all for creating and supporting such a wonderful community. I’ve never posted to the site and now I would like to tell you the story of my husband, Steve, which I hope will offer some hope and information.

    Steve was diagnosed with ICC a year ago, November 2015 at the age of 64. Our journey to diagnosis was not that different from what many others have experienced. I will describe it here for the benefit of others who may just be encountering this illness. We now realize that the first symptoms of the cancer were present in January 2015 while we were traveling overseas and he felt very tired and had a lot of stomach upset. The spring of 2015, he had low energy and in June, after visiting an ENT for hoarseness when he spoke, was diagnosed with acid reflux and he was told that he was dehydrated and should drink more water. During the summer of 2015, he tried to increase his water consumption and as he did, began to feel worse, feeling nausea and fullness. His appetite began to drop and he lost the taste for coffee and beer. By September 2015, he was very tired, taking lots of naps (he would never nap), he had no appetite and he had nausea or vomiting. At this point, I insisted that he visit his gastroenterologist, who ordered an ultrasound, endoscopy and CT scan. The scans showed growths all over his liver. Aside from the very upsetting news, perhaps more upsetting at that moment was the gastroenterologist’s inability to say the word cancer to us or to do more than just read the CT report to us. Perhaps, not surprisingly, when we started to ask direct questions about cancer, he told us that these tumors were probably secondary cancer from cancer elsewhere in the body and that it was most likely colon cancer. Since our insurance had not approved a full abdominal scan, there was no way to know if he had colon cancer, without additional scans. We returned home from the doctor’s office and immediately began to reach out to Memorial Sloan Kettering for an appointment. We feel very lucky that we were able to get an appointment for the next day. The doctors at MSKCC were responsive, expert in their interactions with us and forthcoming. While they did not have good news to deliver, the fact that they were clear and forthcoming with what was going on, helped us to understand, plan and take the necessary actions. I think that one of the best pieces of advice, consistently given on this site is to get a second opinion and to go to a major cancer center.

    At Memorial Sloan Kettering, we went through their diagnostic tests and learned that Steve had multiple (12+) tumors in his liver. He was deemed inoperable and on the day before Thanksgiving 2015, we received the diagnosis: stage iv Intrahepatic Choloangiocarcinoma. Steve began chemo treatment with cis/gem in early December. The first two sets of scans in February and April showed shrinkage of 20-30% each time. The third scan in June showed stability but no additional shrinkage. Knowing that the efficacy of the cis/gem would begin to erode, Steve decided to enter the clinical trail for the HAI pump and he had the surgery to install the pump on August 12th. (https://www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/clinical-trials/13-066). He is now receiving chemo through the pump (FUDR) along with Gemzar systemically every two weeks. He had a post surgical complication of cellulitis and he was hospitalized for 9 days in September.

    In spite of the complication, he has been doing well with the pump. His oncologist is Dr. Maeve Lowery and his surgeon who did the pump surgery is Dr. Vinod Balachandrian. They both have been wonderful–attentive, ready to answer questions and to explain clearly what is happening in each step of this journey.

    Overall, he has tolerated the treatments well. Day to day, his energy level is good and he walks 3-5 miles 5-6 days/week.

    Steve had a scan today and we hope that when it is read, we will learn more about the efficacy of the pump treatment.

    A year ago, we had no idea of what to expect. The information that you all share has been such a help for us to learn about this illness. I hope that by telling our story, in some small way we can offer help to new patients and family members as they seek to understand more about this cancer, treatment options and day to day life.

    We set out to focus on each day and making it as good as it can be. There have been good days and there have been hard days but that is ok. As we enter year 2 of living with ICC, our goal is to have Steve’s cancer be a chronic condition that can be managed. Thank you all again for your support, information and community. I hope to be able to share more as we continue to move through treatment.

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