Hi Ski4fun,
Welcome to our community. It is wonderful news that your husband’s cancer can be addressed with surgery. A Whipple operation is a big surgery, but it sounds like he has a well-experienced surgeon.
There are a lot of postings on this board about experiences with Whipples, which are accessible using the discussion board search engine. There are also a lot of good resources on the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation website for newly diagnosed patients. If the surgery can be accomplished laparoscopically, hopefully that will lead to an easier recovery.
From my own experience with a liver resection, my suggestions would be: to get walking as soon as this is feasible while in the hospital – the hospital staff will help with this; to have a big roll of plastic wrap ready when he gets home – to wrap around the torso before showering to keep the incisions dry; and to accept that the surgery rearranges one’s insides sufficiently that it will take some time to get used to a new normal – like occasional twinges around incisions, or figuring out what foods to avoid for awhile.
I hope everything goes well with your husband’s surgery and best wishes that his recovery is uneventful.
Regards, Mary