I think it is time I introduce myself.

Hi Colleen,
I join the group of caregivers who husbands don’t read the website. Joe has the info he needs but not all the stats etc. that don’t have to do with each individual case. we will add you to our prayer list.
I haven’t been on the site for over a month so have a lot of catching up to do. I miss kkeping up on treatments etc.
We wondered wht Joe was supposed to do with the time God has given him. Now we hae a younger family member, 44, who was just diagnosed with stage 4 Carcinoid (which is different. It has really helped with him being able to share with her the feeling about the shock etc that happens when it comes out of the blue. So God has a plan, we just don’t know what it is but we re open to Him every day to do His will. God Bless Mary Anne

Reading all your posts makes me so glad to be a member of this supportive family at CCO. Nice to “meet” you Colleen. My Dave was also diagnosed in late March. He had chemotherapy only for 4 months but then almost died of a cardiac problem ( in fact I breathed life back into him) and he opted to stop the chemo and try some alternative treatments including IV vitamin C. He is feeling much better and has gained some weight and his many liver tumors had gotten smaller on the last CT scan. He is do for another scan in a couple weeks. Best of luck to you and your husband. It sounds like progress so far and as others have said attitude really counts. My Dave doesn’t read anything about CC either, so I guess we really have a spouses club going here! You both will be added to our lists of people in our daily thoughts. Patrice

Hi Colleen and Fred, This disease just won’t leave people alone. I’m sorry that you have to go through what so many are,including myself. It’s a tuff pill to swallow and a hard battle to fight. However, there is hope!!!! I’m telling you right now that it may not be pleasant at times and Fred you’ll want to throw in the towel— but that’s when you want to kick in the overdrive! I have been dealing with this disease for over 8 and 1/2 years. Unfortunately many lost the battle but on the same note I’ve seen others go on for years. Stay positive, always look for something new, advocate for yourself when needed. Even change direction if your body tells you to. Yes you heard me right. Get to know your body and symtoms and listen to what it is telling you. Relax, meditate, Visualize those cancerous cells leaving your body like they were on fire. Be prepared for all the side effects and have appropriate meds on hand to combat the side effects. Don’t wait; if you feel something is different and not right get it checked out. I’m saying this because I’ve been doing it and will continue to do so until I stop this critter or a cure is found. Sounds Like I have an attitude hey? I get carried away at times. Especially when little children are involved. Bottom line Fred, is you got to keep that positive switch turned on and pray for a cure around the corner or a treatment that works for you. Got to get the grandchildren ready for bed. They are awaiting for their bedtime snack and milk. I sincerely hope your treatment keeps on working and if they stop try something else. Sometimes you have to play hide and sneek—-up on them with something new.
God Bless You All,

Jeff G.

Much like your husband, my wife Dawn has sort of

Hi Colleen,
Nice to meet you! Your husband’s story seems like a very positive one in terms of response to treatment, and refreshing for all of us here, I’m sure. His youth makes his chances of beating this disease so much better, and I’m pulling for you and your family.

I just wanted to comment on one thing you mentioned: Crohns Disease. I was doing an Internet search the other day on the gene that may cause cholangio, and I came across a certain gene, and it was also implicated in the development of Crohns Disease, diabetes and rheumatoid arthritis, if I remember correctly. I’ll try to look at my recent Internet activity and find out what it was I was reading, if you’d be interested. Not that it can really help, but it’s amazing how much the docs don’t know and it may help to know there IS a connection so it can help future sufferers.

Anyway, best of luck to you!

-Joyce

Colleen,

I’m so glad you introduced yourself. I think there are many just like you who hesitate to share in such a public forum.

Frankly, I don’t think any of us would choose to hang out at a cancer site, but here we are, something terrible has brought us together but together we can help each other and we can make this site a source of information and hope for others.

We look forward to your blog. I know it was so helpful for our family and especially for so many friends and neighbors, who wanted to help. So many want to call and ask how things are going, but are nervous to do so. Nor do you want to spend your day going over and over the same things. It really makes communication so easy and it helps everyone on the website as well.

Cholangiocarcinoma is a burden for all of us, but burdens are lighter when they are shared and there are strong shoulders here.

Stacie