Mom’s story – from disagnosis to surgery

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    mbachini
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    HI Callie,
    Welcome to this site, sorry about your mom. I will be keeping her in my prayers for continued success. Please keep us posted on her progress and know that we are here to support you in any way we can. Hugs to you!
    Melinda

    #86650
    gavin
    Moderator

    Hi Callie,

    Welcome to the site. Sorry that you had to find us all here and I am sorry to hear about your mum. But glad that you have joined as you are so in the best place for support and help and will get loads of each from all of us. Thanks for sharing your mums story with us and what a story that is!

    I am so very glad indeed that SK took over everything to do with your mums care and treatment and what a job they have done! Getting these further opinions is so vitally important as you know all too well now. And great as well to hear what SK have done with dealing with the insurance side of things as well.

    I hope that your mum makes a full and speedy recovery from her surgery and wish her every success with the chemo too. My fingers are crossed for your mum here! Please keep coming back here and let us know everything about how your mum gets on. You are not alone in this, we are here for you and we care.

    My best wishes to you and your mum,

    Gavin

    #86649
    marions
    Moderator

    Callie….I echo what everyone else. So happy to see you interacting with us, so happy you made great decisions and so happy that you are a fantastic advocate for your Mom. Looking forward to continuous great news coming our way.
    Hugs,
    Marion

    #86648
    dukenukem
    Member

    Great news, especially about Sloan Kettering stepping up. This would be good for you to report under the Insurance and Hospitals Boards so others can hear about your positive experience.

    Duke

    #86647
    lisacraine
    Spectator

    Dear Callie
    Welcome to this group of wonderful supporters. I am so happy to hear your Mom was a surgical candidate and in good hands. Prayers for continued healing.
    Hugs
    Lisa

    #86646
    kvolland
    Spectator

    Welcome Callie –
    Many of us were lurkers before we were members, don’t feel bad abut it. Sometimes it is all you can do just to put one foot in front of the other.
    As with Lainy way to go on a second opinion and people to go to bat for you so you didn’t have to. We were lucky that we just went from diagnosis to surgery in a very short period of time. I don’t think I even thought of a second opinion but we had a great surgeon and ONC in Seattle so never felt the need.
    My husband had a Roux-en-Y which is similar to a Whipple but his was quite complicated due to previous abdominal radiation. It’s been almost 2 years now and we just keep on moving forward.

    Keep us posted,
    KrisV

    #86645
    lainy
    Spectator

    Dear Callie, thank you so very much for the update on your Mom. Again, proof that the 2nd/3rd opinion is so important. My husband had a Whipple 9 years ago and his CC was also at his Duodenum. The CC never reached his liver until the very end. The Whipple is a long tough surgery then add the liver and you are looking at a lengthy surgery but each day gets better. We love the word Surgery as it is really the only cure. So happy to hear what is going on and especially happy for the good results. Will keep hoping for the very best and please keep us updated about Mom’s progress, we expect good things to be happening.

    #10934
    chrissysdaughter
    Spectator

    Hi there,
    I have been “lurking” around this site for a few months now, being kind of too wrapped up in finding information out for my mom to post any of my own. Thanks to this community for being a fantastic resource for people with CC.

    My mom, Chrissy, is a 53 y/o overall healthy woman. She has always seemed to rarely get sick but when she does, she gets very, very sick! I will start at the beginning. We are from NE Pennsylvania.
    In the spring of 2012, my mom was hospitalized at the local medical center with jaundice, fever, and in general very sick. They discovered a blockage in the bile duct and she was transported to UPenn in Philly for further treatment. UPenn performed an ERCP in which they were unable to access the blockage site and at that time they told us they felt it was Cholangiocarcinoma. Like so many, we had never heard of that before and were shocked when we read the statistics about this disease. A week and another procedure later they were able to access the blockage and it turned out to be a stone. They did brushings and everything was normal… no cancer. We were so incredibly relieved!

    2 years later here we are. Mom was doing well and hadn’t had any recurring symptoms until early November when she presented with incredible itching and jaundice. We went through the same process – back down to UPenn, ERCP, brushings… this time the brushings came back positive. Dr Drebin at UPenn said inoperable. Sent her files to Mayo Clinic to see if she was a candidate for their liver transplant protocol and again were told no – the tumor was connect to her duodenum.

    So, we went in search of another opinion. We ended up at Sloan Kettering with Dr. Peter J. Allen and are so thankful that we did. Dr. Allen has ALWAYS had a positive attitude, never made us feel like we were in a dire situation as the other drs had and told us from the very first visit he believed he could get it. We ran into quite the problem with her insurance company because she has a PA HMO (they wanted to send us to a local hospital with nearly no experience in treating CC) but Sloan Kettering was her advocate the entire way. They took over all communication with the insurance company which came as an enormous relief. About 3 weeks later on January 14th, 2015 my mom had 65% of her liver resected and a Whipple procedure. Dr. Allen told us he does each of those surgeries independently a couple of times a week but he had not done them together in about 5 years. Still he was confident, reassuring and compassionate and we felt good moving forward.

    Dr. Allen feels that they got all of the tumor and everything they needed to. 18 lymph nodes were removed and 5 were shown to have cancer in them. She will now go ahead with chemo and kill off anything microscopic that could be “floating around”. She sees the oncologist at Sloan Kettering this Friday to get moving on everything. She is doing pretty well recovering from the surgery, some ups and downs, some “bugs” from opening up the small intestine but doing well.

    We pray that the surgery has been successful and the cancer will not return! I will keep updated with how things go at the oncologist.

    Lots of love, prayers and positive energy to all CC fighters and their families x

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