My Dad James Bisch Passed Today & I’ve Never Felt This Sad & Empty
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Michael
My deepest condolences to you and your family at this sad time in your lives. Your Dad sounds like a great guy – you must have great memories and stories of your time together to tell your kids.Look after yourself…………………….Gerry
Michael,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My Dad is 8 months into his diagnosis and I fear the day I have to face what you are now. I hope you can find peace in the fact that he is no longer suffering, and watching you and your children from a place far better then here. He WILL always be with you. I am thinking and praying for you and yours today….Jen
Michael,
Deepest condolences on your father. I am fairly new to all of this but definitely understand the sadness you are feeling. Revel in the memories you have of your father…I am sure it’s hard to think of them now without pain, but they will carry much joy with you over the years. I am glad you had the opportunity to make those memories.
Tom
Dear Michael,
I would just like to join the others in sending my condolences to you and your family. I know the pain you are feeling, my Dad died last June 7 weeks after diagnosis of cc….
I didn’t find this site until after he had gone but have always got tremendous support on here.
Sending you strength for the days and weeks ahead. There is not getting away from it the times ahead will be tough. The sun will shine again for you and hopefully you will gain comfort from your precious memories.
Katie
Dear Michael,
I am so sorry for your loss. Hold on to all the memories you made together. Dads never leave us he will always be by your side, guiding and watching over you and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Much Love
Andrea
Dearest Michael
I am so sorry, your dad has passed, my heart and prayers are with you, my dad is days away from passing, i too am 40 with a 7 and 3 year old boys, i feel your pain, with love and strength
MichelleMy mom died June 1st, 2010. It was the most surreal day of my life. Still cannot believe she is gone. Cried last night as I listened to my dad talk of how lonely he is, he wants to move, he hates being in their house as everything reminds him of her. She only had cancer for 4 months of her life that we knew of, the last 3 weeks were the most painful days of my life as my large family sat by and watched her die and battled for a spot beside the bed she hated. We could only hold her hand and stroke her face, to touch the rest of her body was too painful….we couldn’t even hug her. No stents were ever put in her, they waited too long. we could have had more time. Her arms were purple from shoulder to the veins on the tops of her hands. I am still angry after all this time. No one would listen to me, I wanted answers, second opinions and an interested Doctor and any time I brought that up I was shut down. I know in the end the end of this journey would have had the same outcome, but it was such a devastating ride. How is it possible that a 4cm tumor in the left lobe of the liver can consume more than 80 % of the liver within two months? How can a Doctor prescribe thombosis medication which was too strong and she almost bleed to death one day and nothing…. because of that mistake she spent all of May except for 5 days in hospital and never came out and no one is accountable. I don’t get it.
Michael,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Please accept my sincerest condolonces. I too know the pain you are feeling right now as I lost my dad back in December last year. I know that these days will be hard for you, but please know that I am thinking of you.
Gavin
Michael,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I too know the pain and sadness you are feeling. My husband was 62 when he passed two years ago from CC. Try to be comforted knowing he is no longer in pain or suffering and that he will be with all of you forever in your hearts and memories. Know that I am thinking of you and your family at this sad and lonely time in your lives.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaMichael,
I am so sorry for the pain that you are feeling. Your dad sounds like an absolutely wonderful man. You were lucky to have each other.My mom passed away last September. So, unfortunately I know the pain that you are feeling right now. My mom was my best friend. She lived with us, so it was hard on my 5 year old daughter also. I then had a son 2 months after she died. I too am so sad to think about how much my children will miss not having my mom here. My heart is breaking for you.
We are all here for you on this difficult journey.
I am so sorry,
AmyWe are so sorry to hear about your Dad, Michael. How blessed you were to have had the Father/Son relationship that you did and you will cherish those Memories forever. It will be up to you to share the wonderful stories about their Grandfather to your children. Don’t think for one minute that your Dad will not see any of your projects to come and he will be oh, so proud of you. I truly believe that in time you will know that your Dad is all around you, you will learn to detect little things that let you know he is still there. Our heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family.
Hi Everyone –
I am heart broken. My dad James passed away today at the yound age of 68. He was diagnosed in September 2009 and passed approximately 1 year later. He fought so hard and wanted to live so bad. He was such a wonderful man, husband, father, grand father, brother, son, and soldier.
My dad was always there for me. I am lucky to have had him for almost 40 years. We just finished a huge project in my back yard and my dad was there every step of the way. It was nice that he got to see the project completed. I am so very sad that he will not be here for my next project.
My daughter Tierney who is 6 took it the hardest. My 4 year old son Rogan said he understood but I am not sure. My 2 year old son Braeden just wanted to eat a cookie. I am sad for my children who will no longer get the love and support my dad provided. The children in my development loved my dad because he made up games for all the kids to play. I will miss his creativity. I will miss his hugs. I will miss his laughter and mostly I will just miss having him around. I feel an overwhelming emptiness. I feel truly lost for the first time in my life. I feel sick.
I wish everyone better days. My thoughts and prays are with all of you.
Michael
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