June 4, 2010 at 11:24 am #38403lalupesParticipant
Dear Heather – I’m so, so sorry. I wish I could say more, but words fail me. I know how much I love my sister & how much I HATE seeing her in distress. I just can’t grasp the concept of losing her.
My thoughts & loving wishes are with you at this awful time.
Julia xJune 4, 2010 at 1:59 am #38402linda-zMember
Heather, I echo all of those here when I say my heart goes out to you and your sister’s family. There really aren’t enough words to express our sorrow for your grief. I am 53 with a 5 year old son and can really understand your anger and frustration with this disease. Although I am a little later to post here, I wanted you to know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God keep you in his hands until your are comforted. Also remember, that Sophia and Sami will look to you for remembrances of their mother. Guide them like you know your sister would have and keep her memory alive with them. She will always be alive in your heart and theirs.
Linda Z.May 26, 2010 at 3:19 pm #38401heatherblessMember
My sister’s kids are doing ok–Sophia and Sami–ages 8 and 10. I will have them some of the summer. I wish it was different. I wish she was still here–her laugh, her smile. I did not want to grow old without her–my heart cries out for my dear kat. -heatherblessMay 26, 2010 at 1:21 pm #38400donna9Member
Dear Heather, I could say how sorry I am for your loss, but that could not express the sadness in my heart for you and your sister. As I sit here watching my husband of 42 years gasp for breaths waiting for the pain to subside a little. I truly can feel your pain. We will include you and your family in our prayers. DonnaMay 26, 2010 at 7:41 am #38399micsylMember
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved sister, you and your sister and her beautiful children are close in my thoughts right now.
Cape Town, South AfricaMay 25, 2010 at 3:20 pm #38398nkMember
I am very sorry for your loss.My Saj was taken away from me 2 months after diagnosis & left with a 15 yr old precious son.
We will keep you & the family in our prayers.
Please take care
nkMay 25, 2010 at 2:00 pm #38397kristinMember
I am so, so sorry to hear your news. A sister is so special, and I can’t even imagine how close twins must be.
I will keep your whole family in my prayers.
KristinMay 25, 2010 at 12:21 pm #38396cherbourgMember
I am so sorry to hear about your sister Kathy. This is not a post I wanted to read. It’s been a little over a year since I lost my Mom and the pain and anger still emerges at times.
Losing not only your sister but your twin must be devastating. I understand every emotion and the anger you are feeling right now. I wish I could make it all just a bad dream and let you wake up! I know you will be a godsend for your sister’s children but this will be the hardest journey you will ever take.
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. We are all here if you need to vent.
Hugs and much love…..
PamMay 24, 2010 at 11:59 pm #38395walkMember
I am so sorry for your loss. Forty two is too young. I will keep your family in my thoughts.
JanMay 24, 2010 at 9:28 pm #38394gavinModerator
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your sister Kathy, please accept my condolonces. I wish that there was something that I could say that would help ease the pain and anger that you feel right now. But please know that you and your family are in my close thoughts right now.
GavinMay 24, 2010 at 8:22 pm #38393darlaParticipant
I too am so sorry to hear of your loss and feel your pain and frustration. My husband was 62 and passed away 7 weeks after his first symptoms. I felt he was too young and was taken too quickly, but at 42 and with small children that is even sadder and yes, it is just not fair. He too was an identical twin. Words just aren’t enough. In time I hope you can find some comfort and peace of mind knowing that atleast now she is no longer suffering. Keep her with you in your heart and memories. Know that I too am thinking of you and your family.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaMay 24, 2010 at 6:33 pm #38392heatherblessMember
thanks to you all – my friends–your words of compassion mean everything. Love to us all, heatherMay 24, 2010 at 6:30 pm #38391katieloumattMember
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your beloved twin sister. Words alone cannot offer the comfort you need at this time, but please know we are thinking of you and all your family.
Katie xMay 24, 2010 at 6:28 pm #38390lainyMember
Dearest Heather, words just don’t seem to flow at times like this. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayersMay 24, 2010 at 6:05 pm #38389devoncatMember
I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your sisters family in my thoughts.
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