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  • #62945
    gavin
    Moderator

    Dear Kandre,

    I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear husband. Please accept my sincere condolences and know that my thoughts are with you and your family.

    Hugs,

    Gavin

    #62944
    pcl1029
    Member

    Hi,Kandre,
    Really sorry to hear such news. but I really appreciate you quick notice of the situation to us; you are a few of the caregivers who do that to report the final days of experience.May God’s Grace upon you and your family during this tough times.
    God bless.

    #62943
    pamela
    Spectator

    Kandre,

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.

    Love, -Pam

    #62942
    lainy
    Spectator

    Kandre, I am so very sorry to read this and my deepest condolences go out to you.

    To my dearest family some things I’d like to say
    But first of all to let you know that I arrived okay,
    I’m writing this from Heaven. Here I shall dwell with God above
    Here, there’s no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love.
    Please do not be unhappy because I’m out of sight
    Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
    That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through
    God picked me up and hugged me and He said “I welcome you,
    It’s good to have you back again,
    you were missed while you were gone,
    As for your dearest family, they’ll be here later on.
    God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do
    And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you
    And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight
    God and I are closest to you . . in the middle of the night.
    When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years
    Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears
    But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain
    Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
    One thing is for certain though my life on earth is o’er
    I’m closer to you now than I ever was before.
    There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb
    Together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
    When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind
    I’m walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind
    And when it’s time for you to go . . from that body to be free
    Remember you’re not going . . you’re just coming here to me.

    #62941
    kandre
    Member

    Hi to all of you

    ambulance took hubby to hopital on the 16th where he past away, Going to miss him so much.

    Thanks for all of you on this special page for advise and support. luv you all

    #62940
    marions
    Moderator

    Kendra…. Black vomit, especially if it resembles coffee grounds represents a serious situation. He has to be seen by a doctor; the problem will worsen. Kendra, is it possible for you to contact his physician?
    My heart is with you,
    Hugs,
    Marion

    #62939
    gavin
    Moderator

    Dear Kandre,

    I can only agree right now with what Percy and Lainy have said to you about your husband and getting him to hospital now. I so understand that your husband got angry when you mentioned this to him but like Lainy says, there is nothing that you can do for him right now. Your husbands comfort is of the utmost importance right now and I am sure that he will feel and be much morecomfortable at hosiptal. My dad also went through this with bringing up the black bile and I was there at his side as he was doing so, so I can so relate to hopw you are feeling right now. But once again, I urge you to get your husband to hospital now. Please know as well that we are here for you.

    Hugs,

    Gavin

    #62938
    pcl1029
    Member

    Hi,
    You can tell your husband the stents are blocked and the bile is no where to go but up thru the stomach and out. He may get itching soon because of the bile precipitate affecting the skin. sooner or later he has to go the ER;then why not sooner?
    You can tell him that the last stents was good for 6 months as compare to the 3 months he got the stents changed ; so if he goes to the hospital,this time he may extend it longer than 6 months next time with the new stents change.
    As a patient myself, the stents procedure is much an easier choice than having chemotherapy or not.
    If he don’t want chemotherapy,tell him I,as a patient myself, will support him totally even if I may disagree;but not to go to ER to find out what the real problem is not the decision I would make as a patient.
    God bless.

    #62937
    lainy
    Spectator

    Kendra, can you call an ambulance or someone to help you? Let him be angry, he needs to go to Emergency. There is nothing you can do at home for him. Try explaining very quietly to him that he is only going to get help at the ER>

    #62936
    kandre
    Member

    he does not want to go, get very angry with me

    #62935
    lainy
    Spectator

    Kendre, take him immediately to Emergency.

    #7102
    kandre
    Member

    plse help, hubby is throwing black thick bile up, what must I do to help him???

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