New here. Diagnosis July 2012 last stages now

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February 15, 2014 at 6:04 pm #79204

willow
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Linda,
You and your dear husband are in my thoughts. May he continue to find comfort in your loving hands.
Willow

February 15, 2014 at 5:30 pm #79203

lalupes
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Thinking of you and sending you both loving vibes, Linda.

Julia xx

February 15, 2014 at 5:12 pm #79202

sharonlee
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Linda;

I am sorry for what both of you are dealing with. So many treatments and surgery. My heart breaks. He is blessed to have you. We know it’s not easy.
I pray for you and for all others who have lost loved ones.

February 14, 2014 at 5:00 pm #79201

darla
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Linda,

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

February 14, 2014 at 1:11 pm #79200

okansas
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Linda,
Your love for each other is beautiful. Glad you are together at this time. Sending you wishes for comfort and keeping you in my thoughts.
Much love,
Margaret

February 14, 2014 at 6:58 am #79199

gavin
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Thinking of you right now Linda as you both go through this. We are all here for you.

Hugs,

Gavin

February 14, 2014 at 6:21 am #79198

marions
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Linda…know that we are with you.
Hugs and love,
Marion

February 14, 2014 at 4:41 am #79197

lindakos
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Update. My sweet hubby is still with us. I made the decision to stop the Lactulose as it isn’t helping at this point and makes him vomit. He is becoming more withdrawn and less conscious. However, there are moments when we say how much we love each other. I can’t imagine life without

Thanks everyone for the welcome responses.

Linda

February 8, 2014 at 2:36 am #79196

okansas
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Thank you Lainy. You’ve sent me the list and it was indeed helpful.
Margaret

February 7, 2014 at 4:00 am #79195

lainy
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Margaret, I have a sheet that tells you what signs to look for from your husband and sign that will let you know he is around you. If you are a believer he will come! If you like I can email you the signs through the CC Site.

February 7, 2014 at 2:57 am #79194

okansas
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Hi Linda,

I’m so sorry. I only recently traveled the road you are on. My husband was 58.

Other posters have given you good advice and words of friendship and comfort and I cannot add much to that other than to say that my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your husband.

If your husband is able to talk, please do make a quick video with your cell phone or iPod of the two of you saying “I love you” to one another. You will cherish having his kind words to you, and yours to him, later.

I wish I’d asked my husband what sign I could look for from him once he was gone. Questions like that I wasn’t even thinking to ask as we dealt with the practical emergencies before us, but I wish I had.

Our community is wrapping its arms around you and your husband.
Margaret

February 3, 2014 at 12:57 am #79193

Randi
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As others have said, welcome to the site but so very sorry you have any reason to be here. We are here for you at this difficult time.

Hugs,
-Randi-

February 2, 2014 at 8:46 pm #79192

pamela
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Hi Linda,

I am very sorry to hear about your husband. I can tell you that we all care and will offer any support you may need. Bless you and your dear husband.

Hugs,
-Pam

February 2, 2014 at 4:56 am #79191

pfox2100
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Hi Linda. Welcome to the site. Along with what others say sorry you had to find us and my heart goes out to you guys. Blessings, strength, and hope to you all and keep us updated on your journey and feel free to ask anything. Try and take care.
Porter

February 2, 2014 at 12:43 am #79190

darla
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Dear Linda,

I am so sorry for what you are going through, but you have found a good place for help and support. Reading your posts, I can feel your sadness and pain. My husband was 62 and we had been married 41 years, so I do understand how you are feeling. Since you are already familiar with the signs from your experience with your mom, you know what to watch for and I’m sure it isn’t easy to go through this with your dear husband. When you are feeling sad and lonely, we are all here to listen and support you as much as we can. None of us would chose to be here, but I’m sure all would agree that we are all glad we found this wonderful, understanding, supportive “family”.

Take care and let us know how things are going.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.

Love & Hugs,
Darla
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