New here. Diagnosis July 2012 last stages now

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  • #79204
    willow
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    Linda,
    You and your dear husband are in my thoughts. May he continue to find comfort in your loving hands.
    Willow

    #79203
    lalupes
    Participant

    Thinking of you and sending you both loving vibes, Linda.

    Julia xx

    #79202
    sharonlee
    Member

    Linda;

    I am sorry for what both of you are dealing with. So many treatments and surgery. My heart breaks. He is blessed to have you. We know it’s not easy.
    I pray for you and for all others who have lost loved ones.

    #79201
    darla
    Participant

    Linda,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    #79200
    okansas
    Participant

    Linda,
    Your love for each other is beautiful. Glad you are together at this time. Sending you wishes for comfort and keeping you in my thoughts.
    Much love,
    Margaret

    #79199
    gavin
    Moderator

    Thinking of you right now Linda as you both go through this. We are all here for you.

    Hugs,

    Gavin

    #79198
    marions
    Moderator

    Linda…know that we are with you.
    Hugs and love,
    Marion

    #79197
    lindakos
    Participant

    Update. My sweet hubby is still with us. I made the decision to stop the Lactulose as it isn’t helping at this point and makes him vomit. He is becoming more withdrawn and less conscious. However, there are moments when we say how much we love each other. I can’t imagine life without

    Thanks everyone for the welcome responses.

    Linda

    #79196
    okansas
    Participant

    Thank you Lainy. You’ve sent me the list and it was indeed helpful.
    Margaret

    #79195
    lainy
    Participant

    Margaret, I have a sheet that tells you what signs to look for from your husband and sign that will let you know he is around you. If you are a believer he will come! If you like I can email you the signs through the CC Site.

    #79194
    okansas
    Participant

    Hi Linda,

    I’m so sorry. I only recently traveled the road you are on. My husband was 58.

    Other posters have given you good advice and words of friendship and comfort and I cannot add much to that other than to say that my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your husband.

    If your husband is able to talk, please do make a quick video with your cell phone or iPod of the two of you saying “I love you” to one another. You will cherish having his kind words to you, and yours to him, later.

    I wish I’d asked my husband what sign I could look for from him once he was gone. Questions like that I wasn’t even thinking to ask as we dealt with the practical emergencies before us, but I wish I had.

    Our community is wrapping its arms around you and your husband.
    Margaret

    #79193
    Randi
    Participant

    As others have said, welcome to the site but so very sorry you have any reason to be here. We are here for you at this difficult time.

    Hugs,
    -Randi-

    #79192
    pamela
    Participant

    Hi Linda,

    I am very sorry to hear about your husband. I can tell you that we all care and will offer any support you may need. Bless you and your dear husband.

    Hugs,
    -Pam

    #79191
    pfox2100
    Member

    Hi Linda. Welcome to the site. Along with what others say sorry you had to find us and my heart goes out to you guys. Blessings, strength, and hope to you all and keep us updated on your journey and feel free to ask anything. Try and take care.
    Porter

    #79190
    darla
    Participant

    Dear Linda,

    I am so sorry for what you are going through, but you have found a good place for help and support. Reading your posts, I can feel your sadness and pain. My husband was 62 and we had been married 41 years, so I do understand how you are feeling. Since you are already familiar with the signs from your experience with your mom, you know what to watch for and I’m sure it isn’t easy to go through this with your dear husband. When you are feeling sad and lonely, we are all here to listen and support you as much as we can. None of us would chose to be here, but I’m sure all would agree that we are all glad we found this wonderful, understanding, supportive “family”.

    Take care and let us know how things are going.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

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