Dear Jacquie,
Welcome to our group- I’m glad you found us too. Many years ago my husband had colon cancer when my daughter was 7, and although I was with him for surgery, I stayed home, took care of the daughter and he dealt with the cancer and chemo much by himself. I now regret that I let him face most of the emotional side by himself. However, with CC, it is even more important to have someone else with you for support as you work your way through treatment plans. It is a very rare cancer and finding a treatment center that has a multi-disciplinary team and experience is SO important. As Marion said, your husband is probably still trying to adjust to the diagnosis. It may help you ( or your husband) to read the section for newly diagnosed patients on the homepage.
Hopefully your husband will be a candidate for surgery which gives the best chance of a cure. However, if not, there are other treatment options and there is hope.
http://cholangiocarcinoma.org/newly-dx/
Best wishes,
Catherine