January 26, 2010 at 1:37 pm #34875lainyParticipant
We are neighbors. How are you and your family doing? If you ever feel the need to talk please contact me.January 26, 2010 at 3:56 am #34874sad-in-chandlerMember
Yes Lainy we live in Ocotillo area of Chandler…January 21, 2010 at 3:09 pm #34873lalupesParticipant
I’m so sorry to read of your loss, Sad in Chandler. I think it’s lovely that Jenoise (what a beautiful name!!) was able to have some time with her loving family & loving dog.
My best wishes to you all at this very, very sad time.
JuliaJanuary 19, 2010 at 1:29 am #34872mlepp0416Participant
Dear Sad in Chandler:
So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep Jenoise in your hearts. When someone so young passes away so quickly it is always hard to understand why. Continue to use this CC site as so many already do. It’s a wonderful site and if nothing else may bring you comfort. All of us on this site ultimately want the same thing, a cure for CC!
Go with God
MargaretJanuary 18, 2010 at 8:21 pm #34871katieloumattMember
Dear Sad in Chandler,
I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. I know just what you are feeling, my Dad died 7 weeks after diagnosis of cc last June. For us it was very quick and the shock was horrendous but like the others have said no more pain and suffering….
Thinking about you as you face the future,
KatieJanuary 18, 2010 at 5:42 pm #34870gavinModerator
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I recently lost my father to CC so I know how you feel right now.
My thoughts are with you and your family right now.
GavinJanuary 18, 2010 at 3:57 pm #34869lainyParticipant
To the Family of Jenoise: We are so very sorry to hear of your sad journey. Jenoise is now at peace and free from pain. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Are you by chance in Chandler AZ? We live in Sun Lakes.
We are sending these words of comfort to you:
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I’m writing this from Heaven.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there’s no more tears of sadness;
here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me
and said, “I welcome you.
It’s good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
they’ll be here later on.
God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night,
the day’s chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you…
in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years.
Because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there was some rain.
One thing is for certain, through my life on earth is over.
I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
Together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
And now I am contented….
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.
When you’re walking down the street
and you’ve got me on your mind;
I’m walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.
And when it’s time for you to go….
from that body to be free.
Remember you’re not going…
your coming home to me.January 18, 2010 at 3:26 pm #34868darlaParticipant
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Yes, it does sometimes go quickly, however, atleast she did not have to suffer for too very long. You were lucky to have her with you at home those final days and I am sure that is comforting to you and your family.
Atleast she is no longer suffering and is now in a better place. I know that right now there are no words that will make it better, but try to remember that she will be with you forever in your heart and memories.
My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
DarlaJanuary 18, 2010 at 1:45 pm #3093sad-in-chandlerMember
Jenoise was diagnosed with Cholangiocarcinoma back in Nov.of 2009,a stint was put in wich ultimately cost her life..She was in and out of the hospital ICU unit up until the end battling Sespis wich eventually mutated and resisted all drugs to try and fight the infection.She was sent home under the care of hospice so she could live out her final days in her own home with her loving family,friends,and of course her dog.We will cherish the last few days at home we had with her and will always love her and miss her dearly.Jenoise passed away at home with family by her side on January 15,2010 almost 3 months to the day that she was diagnosed.So sad she was only 59 years old,this is a very quick and deadly disease and pray for all who have it and hope someday there is a cure..We love and miss you Jenoise.
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