not an introduction – but a farewell
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I too am sorry to hear of this change in your life. I am hoping for some resolution to this for you and that things will work out for the best. I agree that our Kris would be a good person to talk this over with if you are comfortable with it.
Thinking of you.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaHi Pratzel,
I’m sorry to hear that things are this tough. As willow said you have been a great support for him. X
Sorry to hear that you and our boyfriend are having a hard time. You’ve been a wonderful advocate and everyone needs that. Hang in there.
Dearest Patzel I am truly sorry to hear this. Perhaps he needed time alone or perhaps he didn’t want you to have to go through this. Take it from me Kris is the perfect one to talk to if you like. We spent a little time together at a Lake this last summer and she is terrific! I will be thinki8ng of you. Give him some time and if not wish him the best! We all love you as you made a big impact with us. Take care.
I sent you a private message. If you feel the need to pick the brain of a single patient who was also in dating mode, please feel free.
As I said, I don’t know the specifics of your relationship. But I send healing wishes to you. And I am glad you made a dear friend while on this journey.
Good luck to you, and good luck to your boyfriend as well.Dear members, thank you to everyone who has help me in the past to find out about this horrible disease whether it was sharing your own experiences or giving practical advice as well as the help I got from Gavin and Helen in getting us in touch with a brilliant consultant.
Sadly my “advocacy” is over now. My boyfriend has ended our relationship after we came back from his radiotherapy (for which we have been fighting so hard).
I am still in the aftermath of this, don’t know any reasons why. After all we’ve been through recently… I thought we were close.
Since he still doesn’t know what options one has in the fight against this cancer (because he left all the medical decisions more or less to me) I am rather worried that in future he won’t get the care he might be needing. But there is nothing I can do now, feels like grieving although he’s doing allright at the moment.
Anyway, I wanted to thank you all for your support and there is one good thing to all this misery: Via this forum I met another patient who is now a dear friend. She’ll be undergoing chemo tomorrow and my thoughts are with her.
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