Searching for answers for my Aunt
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January 20, 2011 at 6:41 pm #46882momsolidaySpectator
Thanks Darla:) Yes lots of coinky dinks:) Makes Me KNOW >>I was meant to find you all~
Cathy ____________THANK YOU SO MUCH:) I told my husband my new BFF is Cathy from St Louis:)January 20, 2011 at 5:07 pm #46881darlaSpectatorHi Cindy,
I really don’t have any more to add to all the good advice you have gotten but I am glad you found this site. You will be happy you did. Well, maybe not happy, but relieved. It is all so very overwhelming and all the good, knowledgable people here can help sort it out. Just as another weird coincidence, I have a sister named Cindy Lou and my name is Darla, close to the same as Darlene.
January 20, 2011 at 4:36 pm #46880momsolidaySpectatorThanks Lainy, I know it kinda made me mad, but they are so overwhelmed and they don’t klnow what to think when a trusted Doctor tells thme something. My Aunt is 69. I am getting a game plan in place:)
I really appreciate all of your input~
Cindy Lou
( the lady who answered me I think is Cathy jathy1125? , but It is so weird, because I have a twin Cathy Lynn:)January 20, 2011 at 3:51 pm #46879lainySpectatorHi Cathy and welcome to our wonderful family! NO, is a word we don’t like to hear and when a doctor tells us no, we seek out another opinion. We have quite a few survivors on here who were originally told no. Everyone has given you great advise and I am wondering about your Aunt’s age. If she is an older lady there may be the age fear and factor. It also sounds like your Aunt’s doctor cannot have treated many CC patients and we try to get someone who has. I am sending you best wishes and hope everything starts to turn around for your family. The worst part is having no game plan and once that is in place there is a big sigh of relief because something is being done.
January 20, 2011 at 3:35 pm #46878momsolidaySpectatorJathy1125, Thank You …that was one of hte very first places I called!~ I will e-mail you, as My Aunt went to get a Chemo treatment and the Dr in Florida told her that anyone with Stage IV was NOT a candidate for surgery and or transplant!!!, he is not a specialist or at a Large Cancer center, so she thinks it is futile to seek any another opinion~~ Would you be willing to talk to her and my Uncle? I will e-mail you with the numbers.
I am so happy for your continued health. Prayers up for ou and your family. -CindyJanuary 20, 2011 at 1:15 am #46877jathy1125SpectatorHello I am a cc survivor due to a liver transplant. I was diagnosed in July 2008 and was immediately put in the care of Dr. Wiiliam Chapman at Barnes-Jewish Hospital in St. Louis MO. Dr. Chapman saved my life not once but twice. I ended up having a second transplant due to radiation damage (this is very rare) You can read my story at thetelegraph.com by putting in christmas miracle. My cc was stage 4 and inoperable. I received my first transplant on May 24,2009 and second one July 4 2009. Dr. Chapman and staff are the most amazing people. i never needed a second opinion because I was in the care of the best. Please feel free to e-mail me if I can give you more information. Good luck and lots of prayers-Cathy
January 20, 2011 at 12:48 am #46876momsolidaySpectatorThank you SO much everyone, my twin Sister is a nurse and she is heloiung as well, My Aunt was told early on that her tumor was not operable…but NOT by any specialist in this field?? SOOO>>>I doknow tha ther tumor markers have decreased and so far they say no metastases.
From what I have found so far it seems?? that Liver transplant is the best way to go IF accepted..if so…where Besides Mayo? for that?
Thanks again…and PS>>Charlea..on another note…mansfield…wow what a small world~ I graduated from Madison “74January 19, 2011 at 12:39 pm #46875gavinModeratorHi Cindy,
Welcome to the site. Sorry that you had to find us all and I’m sorry also to hear of your Aunt, but I am happy that your aunt’s CC seems to have been caught early enough so that surgery may be an option. In my dads case, his CC was not caught early enough so surgery was ruled out from the start and I am sure that the wondeful members here will come forward and share their experiences and knowledge with you.
I am glad that you have joined us all as you will get a ton of support as you and your aunt go through all of this so I do hope that you will keep coming back here. We know how you are feeling right now and we know what you are going through. And please, feel free to ask any questions that you might have and we will all help if we can.
To go along with the link that Marion posted, these links may also be of use to you. This is a list of some of the major treatment facilities in the USA –
http://www.cholangiocarcinoma.org/majorcancercenters.htm
And we also have a transplant board here that may be of use at some point –
http://www.cholangiocarcinoma.org/punbb/viewforum.php?id=46
And the resections board may also provide more information as well –
http://www.cholangiocarcinoma.org/punbb/viewforum.php?id=41
Please let us know how your aunt gets on.
My best wishes to you and your aunt,
Gavin
January 19, 2011 at 7:14 am #46874marionsModeratorHello Cindy….In addition to Charlea’s and roma’s posting I would like to attach a link established by our members.
http://www.cholangiocarcinoma.org/punbb/viewtopic.php?id=3126&p=2
Your aunt is fortunate to have you by your site, as much information will be coming her way. Please, stay in touch. We are all in this together.
Good luck and best wishes,
MarionJanuary 19, 2011 at 4:42 am #46873roma35MemberHi Cindy, how great it is if there are no mets! Im wondering if the chemo worked to shrink the tumor? Northwestern in Chicago may be worth a phonecall, I know in my dads case, they were able to operate and remove the tumor. It is definitely always good to have an advocate getting info, processing info, helping with decisions, your aunt is lucky to have you.
January 19, 2011 at 3:03 am #46872charleaSpectatorHi Cindy Lou, I’m originally from Mansfield too. You have a long search ahead for your answers and finding the right doctor to help you is the next step. If it is true that your aunt is early in her disease and has no spread she may be a surgical candidate. The site members here will help you with your search as I am sure there will be participants who are from Ohio. University Hospital in Columbus and the Cleveland Clinic may be able to give you information as well. I wish you well with your search….your aunt is fortunate to have you helping her when all of this overwhelming news hits.
January 19, 2011 at 2:23 am #4633momsolidaySpectatorHello,
I am Cindy Lou from Mansfield, OH
My Aunt Darlene has been treated for
“Cancer” for a year and just recently was given a Name for it >>CC, I do not understand why but I am assuming that she did not ask many questions.
Researching this is Overwhelming to say the least.
It seems that early detection, (which may be her case, it is still localized to the Liver after a year of chemo and avastin which she had to quit due to side effects. ) and Transplant offer the only real hope?How can I find out which Facilities offer this option? The Mayo Clinic has already been ruled out to to the fact that they do not accept medicare B assignment and charge 15% above it to the patient.
Although we live in OHIO she is willing to travel anywhere, but apparently she is only alowed one second opinion? I am not sure if this is per medicare and or her supplement.
Any information would be greatly appreciated!! THANKS SO MUCH -
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