Tomorrow’s The Day
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May 3, 2009 at 5:31 pm #28555daniellemargSpectator
Hi Irene,
I love your attitude (and I wish Jim’s tumor was lazy…). Regarding the lymph nodes, Jim was told he had lymph node involvement and then later on adrenal gland involvement but both cleared up on subsequent scans. Regardless, your attitude is inspiring and it ‘s amazing what hte body and spirit can do.
Warmest thoughts to you,
DanielleMay 1, 2009 at 11:14 am #28554darlaSpectatorDear Irene,
You have a wonderful attitude and I think that is so important. What you said is all so true. It is a mixed bag, but take it and live your life to the fullest. From our experience with this cancer & what I have since learned from everyone here, I fully support you and the decisions you have made. You are a very courageous lady. You are so right, with this site & everyone on it none of us, patient or caregiver, are alone in our struggles.
I am hoping for only the best for you in the future.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaMay 1, 2009 at 5:50 am #28553jamie-dMemberHi Irene,
My birthday is in September also! When I was on chemo I was on Gemzar and Xeloda. When I was diagnosed in Oct 07 I was told I may not make it until my daughters High School graduation in May 08. Well I was there, ended up getting a resection the next week after being told I was inoperable, and will bring her home from college tomorrow after she finished her first year! Let’s keep proving these docs wrong. Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.
God Bless,
JamieMay 1, 2009 at 4:51 am #28552devoncatSpectatorI love lazy tumors…in fact I want one!
Glad your news was mostly good.Kris
May 1, 2009 at 3:31 am #28551sophieMemberDear Irene, so glad that you are ecstatic and calmer and glad for that lazy tumor. You certainly are a courageous woman, Irene. Would you sprinkle a little of that courage on me?
Love,
SophieMay 1, 2009 at 3:16 am #28550hollieMemberIrene,
Been thinking of you and wondering how it went. Thanks for the report and so happy things are looking ok. I know you will see your 45th birthday and many good days ahead.
I agree about not being alone in this battle.. People are amazing here on this site….Take care of yourself Irene. Love, HollieMay 1, 2009 at 3:04 am #28549marionsModeratorIrene……yes, for lazy tumors. I am happy to hear that your liver functions are perfectly normal and that you are feeling well. There is nothing more encouraging then when the predictions are proven wrong.
Hugs to you,
MarionMay 1, 2009 at 2:28 am #28548ireneaMemberHello All:
First — I want to thank all of you again. I truly believe in the power of good thought and spirit and I think the vibes were of great help to me today.
So here’s my update. The bad news is that there is now a second, tiny tiny (less than a cm) tumor also in the liver, sort of off by itself, nowhre near a wall, a vein, or a node. There are also three lymph nodes of increased size, which clearly tells us there is node involvement. (At my last check in October 08 the nodes were identified as “probable” involvement but now they are bigger and the situation seems more clear.)
The good news, however, seems to be fairly good news: while the tumor has grown, it has grown only 1/2 cm (it went from 6.5 in October to 7.0 today). Doctor was very clear that this is what they’re calling a “lazy” tumor and he said “growth was slower than we’d expected.”
Doctor did suggest chemo which I again declined — at least for now — but he was much less insistent, and said it was something we should talk about again when he does the next scan in 3–4 months. Also recommending Gemzar only as opposed to the three-drug cocktail he strongly wanted me to be taking last year.
Overall, the news was good (relatively speaking, of course) and in fact the doc said I may have 6 or 12 months before I start to see serious symptoms. This may not sound like a long time, but I will tell you all that last summer these folks had me dead in a year. I fully expected that I would not make it to my 45th birthday (which is in September — and hey — I like watches!) and now it sounds like I might just make it there, and then some.
So…obviously the presence of the second tumor is bad bad bad, and the growing lymph nodes bad. But overall I am esctatic at the fact that the primary tumor is so d*mned lazy (my tumor takes after me — how sweet!) and that as of today, my liver function remains perfectly normal.So — it’s a mixed bag, but I’ll take it, and will try to honor the time I do have left.
My deep affection — no, make that my love, to all you. We struggle, but none of us strggles alone.
Courage,
IreneApril 30, 2009 at 5:57 pm #28547marjoSpectatorA thought and a prayer and all the good vibes I could muster have been sent your way.
Marjo
April 30, 2009 at 4:42 pm #28546duke0929Memberjust hoping the BEST for you Irene….ron
April 30, 2009 at 4:33 pm #28545ladybug02142004SpectatorPraying for the best results!!!!
April 30, 2009 at 4:03 pm #28544devoncatSpectatorWill light a candle for you tonight and sending you all the postive vibes I can!!
Chin up girl.
Kris
April 30, 2009 at 2:12 pm #28543tessMemberMany great thoughts, prayers & energies coming your way Irene! We’re crossing our fingers and hoping for the best for you too!
-Tess
April 30, 2009 at 1:08 pm #28542darlaSpectatorYou’ve got it. Good thoughts for the best out come on your scan coming your way.
Darla
April 30, 2009 at 11:11 am #28541jcleggMemberGood thoughts and prayers coming your way, Irene – fingers and toes crossed also!
Joyce C.
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