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Dear Chrissy – As you know, you can only make the decisions one at a time and you will make the right ones when the time comes. I agree with you about quality of life. I hope you consider the second opinion option. Whatever you do, hold each other close. Blessings, Susan
Dear Chrissy,
I am so sorry to hear this news. As Lainy says, there is the option for a second opinion. How do you and your husband feel about that? You are right about the numbness and I felt that also when my dad was given the same type of news. We are all here for you.
Gavin
Dear Chrissy, I am so, so sorry to hear this latest news. You still have an option for a 2nd opinion, we are such strong believers in that. Did the doctor say what might be done now? What does he suggest?
Not good news- We were told that the cancer in hte liver has grown in size & number. It is not likely that David will be suitable for further chemotherapy. They are giving him high dose dexamethasone in an attempt to salvage some liver function but we were told this is not likely.
Looks like I indeed spoke too soon.
I know many of you will know so well the numbness that we are filled with.
ChrissyChrissy…..has his depression lifted a bit? That may also be a reason for his not feeling so good. And, of course there is he anxiety of the upcoming scan results. I am crossing my fingers for an uplifting report coming your way. As Nancy has mentioned other agents may be recommended if indeed your husband is not showing a positive response to he Gem/Cis treatment. Hang in there. And, remember to stay in touch with us. We care and we are with you.
All my best wishes,
MarionHi Chrissy, From reading this board it seems others have had various second line chemos. If ( and I pray not) that the cancer is spreading let the doctor know you are interested in second line chemo. What does David say? I think you will be able to make a good decision when you get the results. Doug finished his gem/cis on May 18th and he gets a scan on June 23rd. We try not to think about it and just enjoy our month, but you do kind of feel held prisoner to the “scan results.” Like Lainy said if you are not happy with the doctor’s response go for that second opinion. I will say a prayer tonight for your family. Hugs. Nancy
Dear CM. I am sorry but there is no way for us to know what the Scans will show however as always we try to remain realistically optimistic. I would say one’s gut instincts are usually right but again, we don’t really know. If you feel uneasy about what the doctor is doing you have the right to another opinion. Where is David being treated? One of the worst things we have found is waiting for the Scans and results. Attitude means a lot so please try to remain strong and wear lots of smiles as it really does help. I will be looking forward to David’s results.
I was hoping to get your experienced thoughts… My husband completed 4 months chemo- Gemcitabine & Cisplatin Nov 2010. He has a number of mets in liver, bones and lymph nodes. David is getting another scan tomorrow and the results will follow the next week- the disease until now has been stable pretty much. i have a feeling that he might need to start treatment again. He isn’t feeling as good.
I just want to know what are the best options now? I want to have an idea before we see the consultant. Doc says quality of life but I am holding out for quantity too
C
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