Thank you for your replies, this has helped quite a bit. Even today she is worse than yesterday, unfortunately, and I have decided to increase her medication to try and help be more comfortable. I asked about different medications but her hospice nurse said they are all similar to morphine and the morphine is easier to administer as you can adjust the dosages. Her pulse and blood pressure is good, but it is so difficult to see her so sick. But unfortunately her urine is very dark. As Tess mentioned about heated discussions, I wish that we could do that as a family, but unfortunately one sibling is in denial and the other is irrational. Everyone, deals with this differently, but to me what is important is keeping my mom comfortable and today was not good. Thank you again for all your best wishes and I send them back to you.