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Thanks to all 3 of you for the welcome. I hope that I don’t sound like I’m complaining about being “stretched to the max”. I’ve always said that I’ll never complain about doing stuff for my Dad, as I realize someday he won’t be here….I just never thought we’d get news like this. I envisioned doing his errands for many more years to come! To answer your question Jeff, he doesn’t live with us, but lives in an seniors resort just 5 minutes down the road. They are wonderful and make sure that he keeps active and socializes. I have two siblings, but both live out of town. My husband is very supportive in trying to help out with the kids, etc. So far, we’re making it work – its alot of juggling! Marion, you mentioned that this cancer is slow growing. That is what the original specialist said in the hospital as well, but the Oncology Dr. and the nurse both said it was agressive. I’m confused by the discrepancy in opinions. We have a very well respected Cancer Clinic in our community and we’re relying on their expertise….but it gets confusing sometimes. I’m hoping to connect with some other “kids” with aging parents.