Caitlin16

Hi all,

My name is Caitlin and my mother Judi was diagnosed with bile duct cancer in October. It was somewhat of a gut punch to us as she had just been told in May that she was cancer free, she had a previous diagnosis of uterine cancer in June of 2017. She had a hysterectomy, 16 weeks of chemo and 5 weeks of radiation. She received treatment at Karmanos in Detroit as we are only an hour away and Dr. Morris is one of the top oncologist for uterine cancer in the state.

The issues started when her PCP noticed that she had a hernia, we were told that that is pretty common after having the hysterectomy. she had been having a hard time eating big meals for a few months after she finished her treatments, and we attributed it the hernia, as part of her stomach was in the hernia. She was given the all clear by her oncologist to go ahead with the surgery. The surgeon also took out a substantial amount of scar tissue while he was in there. We were told everything went well with the surgery, this was at the end of September.

About a week after her hernia surgery she became very jaundiced. We took her back to the hospital where she got the hernia surgery and they did a CT scan, and immediately admitted her to the emergency. The scan showed two large cysts on either side of her stomach, and we were told it was outside the scope of the local hospital to do anything, so she was transferred to Henry Ford Hospital in Detroit that night.

She was in Henry Ford for 8 days, they did not know where the cysts came from or what caused them we still do not have an answer to this, they took a sample of the fluid in them, as well as putting a temporary stent in her bile ducts as the bile duct was inflamed. They took a scraping of the bile duct tissue while they were there. She had also been having pain in her back and her left shoulder, and when we told them of that pain they ordered a bone scan. The bone scan showed that cancer has spread to a spot on her spine, her shoulder and her hip. They suspect the bone cancer is from her original uterine cancer, but they did not do a scraping to know for sure. The liquid in the cysts was bacterial, so she was put on a cocktail of antibiotics and when they drained some of the fluid she was able to eat more than she had been able to in weeks, so they ended up putting a stent in the bigger cyst to drain into her stomach.

The scraping from the bile duct showed that is was cancer. We told them that we wanted to go back to Karmanos for treatment since she had been comfortable with them before, and after we said that it felt as though Henry Ford was done with us, and they released her soon after. The only follow up we were given was to get into her primary care physician when she got home and then follow up with Karmanos from there, and that they would call to make an appointment to put a permanent stent in her bile duct in a few months. She was not given any blood thinners when they discharged her.

We had set up an appointment with Karmanos in November because that was the earliest we could get in. However our plans were derailed. Her ankles were swollen when she returned home from Henry Ford, the floor Dr. said that she had to give her an abundance of liquids due to the fact that her kidneys were close to failing. She said the swelling should subside with time. Her PCP prescribed her diuretics to try to get rid of the fluid, as she was having a hard time walking because her feet were so swollen. The Thursday before Thanksgiving we had to take her to emergency. Her left leg had nearly doubled in size and her right leg was also extremely swollen and they were both painful. She also was having a difficult time breathing.

After initially thinking it was Pneumonia, she was admitted to McLaren Hospital in Port Huron Michigan, our local hospital. They found that she had several blood clots in her left leg and one in her right. She also had a Pulmonary embolism. After a CT scan, it showed that she had fluid buildup on her lungs, as well as several spots on her liver and a few spots on her lungs. They were able to drain fluid off of her lungs, 700 cc of it and we were told there was still more. The CT scan did show that her stent in the bile duct was still working, and the bigger cyst had drained completely and the other one was getting smaller.

They told us she is not a candidate for surgery.

After speaking with the oncology Nurse Practitioner, she suggested that we get my mother on palliative care and she wanted to send her home to be with us on Thanksgiving. She said it could potentially be her last one and that she should not spend it in a hospital she should be with her family, and work on getting stronger in the hope that she will be strong enough for a treatment down the road. She was released last Wednesday the day before Thanksgiving.

We received many mixed messages within that hospital, the hospitologist essentially told her that she had six months to live and to forget about palliative care that she was basically in hospice, and that as he put it “It’s everywhere.” However when we spoke to the oncologist he told us that chemo would be the likely treatment, and once he got the pathology from the fluid on the lung he would be able to decide which course of treatment to go with. He told us not to hit the panic button yet. We only saw him once in the six days she was there. The oncology nurse practitioner, who has been great through all of this, told us that she wanted palliative care in the hopes that she could work to get stronger and that they would use it to treat the symptoms to gain her strength.

We saw the palliative nurse practitioner and she was just as baffled with how this was being handled as we are. She said she doesn’t understand them sending her home and giving us the impression that nothing could be done when they hadn’t even tried to fight it. My mother has made it clear since we got the diagnosis at Henry Ford that she wants to fight. She is only 58, and doesn’t want to give up.

The big setback is that her legs are still swollen, she is on blood thinner and they have gone down significantly, her right leg is almost back to normal, however she is going to be limited in what she is able to do travel wise, and the pulmonary embolism will take 3 to 6 months to fully dissipate. She also has not ambulated on her own in weeks, and as a result her muscles are extremely weak and she has lost a lot of muscle tone. She has a visiting nurse once or twice a week, is on oxygen and she has seen a physical therapist and occupational therapist. They have given her exercises to do in bed to try to build strength up, but at this point we have been told that she is not a candidate for chemo because she just is not strong enough and it would do more harm to her in this state than good. She is also still not able to eat anything significant, she can tolerate fruit and protein shakes, but that is about it. She feels full and her stomach is very bloated. The palliative nurse practitioner said it could be ascites, and that it is a possibility to get those drained. The visiting nurse today however told us she is not sure if they will be able to drain the fluid in her abdomen because of the blood thinner.

It has been nothing but frustration on top of a devastating diagnosis because we just feel as though everywhere she has turned we have been getting different messages and mixed signals. I am also frustrated that this was not caught earlier as she had a PET scan in January at Karmanos and we were not told anything negative about the results.

I would like to get a second opinion as I think a larger hospital would be better equipped to handle this than our local one, even though I have heard nothing but good things about the oncologist here. The palliative nurse practitioner suggested if we wanted a second opinion to look at Karmanos in Detroit or the University of Michigan. As I said before however, the issue we are going to run into is getting her to the appointment if we do decide to get a second opinion. But it sounds like the doctors here are going to wait for her blood clots to dissipate before they do anything, but I think by then it might be too late. She is supposed to have an appointment with the local oncologist on December 7th but I am not sure what he will even tell us at this point.

If anyone has any advice on what we should ask, or do or who we should see it would be greatly appreciated. Right now we could really use a solid game plan and something to go off of, because I feel like the last week has just been watching her suffer and not knowing if anyone was going to do anything substantial to try and help her.