Mary,
Your post was so helpful to me. My only treatment for the advanced CC right now would be gemsitabine alone because the Doc thought the Gem/cis would be too strong, as your note seems to verify. Also, I decided against going to Florida for a while, and your experience told me I made a wise choice.
You have had a rough time, but I appreciate your sharing your life with us. People say to never give up hope, and I agree! Praying for you.