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SpectatorBrenda,
I’m so sorry to hear that Don passed away and you are now dealing with another death in the family. It is almost too much to bear. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very sad and trying time.
Keep Don in your heart and memories. He will always be with you. I know it is not much of a consulation for you right now, but atleast Don is no longer suffering or in pain. Hopefully you can take some comfort in that.
Take care and be safe in your travels.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorJulia,
Just checking in and letting you know I am thinking of you and Susan. Hoping for some comfort and peace for both of you.
Take care.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorOh Julia,
I just saw this post and am so sorry that you and your sister are going through all of this. Believe me I know how it feels. You are strong and a great advocate for your sister. Keep fighting for her and for yourself. You are both worth it. Know that I am thinking about both of you. Lots of good thoughts and prayers coming your way from Wisconsin.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear ScottsMum,
I am sorry to hear of your mom’s passing, but glad to know it was quick and peaceful. She is in a better place, no longer in pain or suffering and will always be with your in your heart and memories. My best wishes to you and your family at this sad time.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear 4neil,
I am so sorry for your loss and felt so badly for you while reading your post. I’ve been where you are and truely know how you are feeling. Unfortunately this disease is so rare it is often misdiagnosised until it is too late. I too found this site a few days after my husband passed away from this disease.
You have come to the right place for help, support and understanding. It is all so unfair, but know you are in a safe place here and everyone has been touched by this disease in one way or another. You have every right to be angry and confused. We are all here to help and support each other. Come back often. Try to take comfort in knowing that Neil is now in a better place, no longer suffering or in pain and he will always be with you in your heart and memories. Nothing or no one can take that away from you.Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorItfoundusin2011
I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. This disease is hard on everyone it touches. I am sorry it has touched you and your family. Yes, your mom is now at peace and no longer suffering. She will always be with all of you in your hearts and memories. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. Thinking of you and hoping for peace and healing for you all.
Love & Hugs.,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear SandT,
I too am sorry to hear of Ed’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys at this sad and trying time. Try to remember all the wonderful years you had. Those memories will keep him close to your heart. Take some comfort in knowing that he is now at peace. No longer in pain or suffering. You and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Katheryn,
Yes it is unfair and we all know & share your frustrations and anger. You are not alone. We are all here for you. I’m hoping for you two to get a break and that things will begin to improve soon. Keep coming back here and vent all you want. Please keep us udated as to how Patrick is doing. Think of you.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorPhil,
Thanks for taking the time to let us know how things are going. I know exactly what you are feeling and going through right now. As Marion said, I can only reiterate, pain control is the most important thing right now. There is no reason for Gerry to be suffering or in pain. Can’t help you as far as the Gabapentin hopeful Percy or others will be able to give you more info on that.
My heart and thoughts are with you both.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorPhil,
Sorry to hear things are not going well for Gerry. Thinking of you and Gerry. Hoping they can figure this out and things turn around soon . If positive thoughts and prayers help, you’ve got them.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Wilma,
I am so sorry to hear that your husband is not doing well. Unfortunately, there are some of us on here who have had similar experiences. I didn’t find this site until a few days after my husband passed away. He was one of the unlucky ones. He also appeared to be very healthy but passed away 2 months after his first ER visit. I do hesitate to post this as I do want people to have hope and many are fighting this disease rather successfully. Jim died in 2008 at the age of 62. Since I have been on this site I have seen many changes and many people who have been doing much better with surgery and treatment. I too sometimes wonder why that couldn’t have been our situation, but I guess in his case it just wasn’t meant to be.
You have every right to be angry and please feel free to vent all you want. We all understand and are here to help and support each other. Try to stay strong. I know it’s not easy, but it’s all we’ve got.
I will be hoping for the best for your husband. Take care Wilma. Know I am thinking of you. Please keep us updated on how he is doing.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorHi celoi,
Truer words were never said. I feel the same about my husband. He left us on 9/2/08, a Tuesday at 8:55AM. It doesn’t go away, it doesn’t get easier and we don’t forget. We only learn how to live with it and try to go on the best we can. Hope you are doing OK.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Arujain28,
You have my sympathy and understanding. I am so sorry you have lost your father to this disease. This disease is so unpredicitable and sometimes just sneeks up on us before we even know what the heck is going on. Please do not feel badly for how things went. You did the best you could with the situation as you understood it. It sounds to me like you loved and cared very much about your father and I am sure he knew that, too. Try not to dwell on what might have been. Remember him as he was before CC. Keep those memories alive and he will always be with in in your heart and memories.
Please feel free to come here often to share your feelings. Many of us have had similar experiences and know and understand. Take care.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorMy response as I was reading your post was also HUH?????????????
Vent away you deserve to and need to.
People really don’t get it.
Shortly after my husband passed away someone said to me that they totally understood what I was going through. I asked her when her husband passed away and she said “he didn’t, he divorced me!” What?????? She then went on to say that it was actually worse for her than for me.
I have found that there is nothing you can say to people like that as no matter what, they will justify their response with another stupid response.
Just come here and vent and know we all care and understand.
Hope things are going well for you, atleast for today.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorPearlie0201,
I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s experience and his passing. Unfortunately it is a story too often heard on this site. CC is a very unpredictable disease and often hard to discover and diagnois.
My heart goes out to you and your family for what you have experienced and the pain and grief of your loss. Yes, it is horrific, but try to take some comfort in knowing that your dad is now at peace and no longer suffering or in pain.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad and trying time.
Love & Hugs,
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