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SpectatorStamina? Lainy, I also love your thought of them moving on together.
September 28, 2010 at 2:31 pm in reply to: Intro – sorry to join, but thankful you’re all here #42043darla
SpectatorHi djhappytalk,
I too want to welcome you to this wonderful site. It sounds like you and your family have had more than your share to handle and I do admire your humor and attitude. I am glad you found us and hope you will continue to post. The love and support on this site is remarkable and although we all know a lot more about CC now than we ever wanted to, we are all here to help you in any way we can. Take care.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorTom & Ben,
I have been following your posts and hope things go well at MD Anderson. As long as Ben feels good keeping doing the things you want to do. Enjoy life one day at a time (my motto also)
I too hope Tom will feel good for a long time to come.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorI second that. We will be waiting to hear the good news. Darla
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SpectatorHi Terry,
I say that about so many things. We always felt that we could manage anything, together. Never expected to have to manage it all alone and some days I really don’t feel strong enough. I agree that I don’t think you need to be admitted for mental problems. I think that what we are feeling and dealing with is normal for our situation and what we have all been through.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow and hoping that what every you decide to do you will be OK. I was told that nothing will ever be the same again, but life will go on. We will be OK, and we don’t have to get over it! We just have to learn how to accept the life we have now been given. Some days I get it and others all I can do is say HOW?????
Take care Terry.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Kim,
I too am so sorry to hear that you mom has lost her battle with CC. Many of us know your pain and share your loss. Please do keep coming back here for help and support as you grieve. Thinking of you.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Beth,
Vent all you want, you have that right. I know exactly how you felt. What she said was very unfeeling and insensitive. I actually have had people compare my husbands death to divorce and say that divorce is worse. I don’t think so! I truely believe that losing a loved one to this disease and watching what it does to them both physically and mentally is about the most traumatic thing anyone can go through. I have been told that as hard as it is on the person who is dying, it is even harder for those who love and care for them.
As you said, everyone’s situation is different and you can not compare one person’s grief to another’s.
Hopefully you will be able to find someone more compassionate and understanding to help you and your daugther through your grief. Take care Beth and come back and vent whenever you want or need to.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorKris,
I too am thinking of you. Hoping for the best and that you will be back with us soon.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorOh Kris,
What a disappointment. I do admire your ability to roll with the punchs and taking it all well, looking at it in the best light. They say that everything happens for a reason, but life is not always fair, is it? And yes, both cancer & the French and their stupid strike suck! I am hoping you are right and that you will be in top condition for the surgery and it will all go well. I will be thinking of you on Monday.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorGreat to hear Margaret and I’m glad those doctor’s are finally listening to you!
You probably are more capable than the home health care people and know more about this disease than the doc’s and nurses at this point, so I hope they keep listening.
Thinking of you both and hoping things are going well now that Tom is back on track.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorMargaret,
You’ve got it. Many prayers coming your way. Hoping for the best for Tom. Don’t forget to take care of you, too.
Lots of Love & Hugs for you both,
Darladarla
SpectatorMargaret,
Glad you got Tom in and things are being taken care of. Hopefully this is just another bump in the road and things will soon be improving.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorKris,
Paris & Jimmy Buffet. Great combination. Have a wonderful time. We will all look forward to hearing all about it when you return.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Lainy,
I have been following your posts and think of you both all the time, but find it hard to respond. I do want you and Teddy to know that you are both in my thoughts and prayers. You two are such a hugh part of this forum and our wonderful CC family. You have always been here to help and support with your humor and words of wisdom for all. We are all here for you two now, to help and support you through these hard times.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorRick,
It breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes knowing what you and your family are going through. Please know that you, Debbie and your two girls are in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love & Hugs,
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