Thank you to everyone who replied. Lainy – I live near Flagstaff – not too far from you! It’s a strange twist to be happy to be here to have resources, caring, words of wisdom and back up. I wish none of us would have to meet this way…but as I like to say “in the meantime” here we are! My stepmummy is very happy to have me on the Forum. She likes me to be her “assistant” and ask the questions and then read them to her. Will keep you all posted – am hoping and praying that her surgery will be very soon.