harmonys_mom

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • in reply to: I’ve made it two years… #77271
    harmonys_mom
    Member

    Dear Mary and Lainy,

    Beautiful said and heartfelt by many. God Bless You Both.

    Susan

    harmonys_mom
    Member

    Dear Desiree and Pam,

    I lost my 32 year old daughter 2 1/2 years ago. I soooo understand your pain as I read your posts. Even now, it is still hard.

    What I can say to you is that you are not alone…that through grief somehow you will grow as a person…that there will be day when you realize for just a moment, you ‘forgot”, and in that moment will be a mix of regret and relief. And those moments will come more often. And your heart will form a bandaid. And you will smile when thinking of her instead of crying EVERY time. And the “why did this happen?” will not be as painful.

    If there was some way I could reach through this computer and wrap my arms around you both, I would. You will survive. I did, and I did not think that possible at one point. I re-found God or I should say, God touched me, and helped me get through the day to day, sometimes hour by hour. You will be with her again and what a beautiful reunion that will be!

    God Bless You Both.

    Susan, Harmony’s Mom

    in reply to: update on Harmony #29557
    harmonys_mom
    Member

    Thank you all! Your kind works of support are sooooo appreciated.

    We had a “Celebration of Life” ceremony for her yesterday, as Harmony did not want a funeral or memorial service. It was spectacular! So many friends, family and colleagues spoke of her resilient spirit and her need to live her life AROUND her cancer. I can only hope that I will be half the gal she was if I am ever faced with a similar challenge. I sure do miss her.

    Susan

Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total)