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  • in reply to: Mom’s update #52492
    kavita1
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    Thanks for all your great advice. We’re hanging in here, and praying she gains enough strength to travel. Much appreciated.

    in reply to: Mom’s update #52488
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    Yes Lainy, I agree. I am a physician myself and it comes as a major shock the whole way that our family has been treated. We never expected special treatment, just the honest truth would have been nice. The surgeon also told my mom he got the whole tumour last year and that she didn’t need any chemo or radiation, this is unfortunately part of the reason why she was so reluctant to get radiation at Memorial Sloan Kettering last year. Of course it was my mom’s decision in the end, but the surgeon’s voice was heard over ours. There has been much passive aggressive behaviour and intimidation from her team to our family and it has been tough. My poor Dad is sooo broken he doesn’t have the energy to stand up to. Trust me, I am working as hard as I can to get her to another care centre in the States. She is so unstable right now and is not ready for travel, but I am hoping in another couple of weeks we can take her elsewhere. Our journey has been more than awful.

    Thanks for you support…

    in reply to: Mom’s recurrence #51664
    kavita1
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    Thank you all for such wonderful information. I am happy to say that mom’s hemoglobin is up after a blood transfusion and she is drinking broth. She is sounding hopeful for radiation therapy, and chemo again. She wants to fight this thing, which is wonderful news to all of us! I just keep praying that she has the energy and can build up the energy and appetite to give it a good go.

    Cheers for all the info….its very useful….I appreciate it.

    kavita1
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    Thanks so much for this info! It’s great!

    in reply to: Recurrent Cholangiocarcinoma #50017
    kavita1
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    Hi heartdoc,

    My situation unfortunately parallels yours.
    My mom had a partial hepatectomy in July 2010, a year ago, with a Roux en Y repair, and she had complications of biliary peritonitis, sepsis and massive intraperitoneal fibrosis which require a second adhesion removal surgery in August 2010. she was finally strong enough to go through 2 months of xeloda and gemzar iv before she started getting episodes of recurrent cholangitis. The horrible part for us has been to watch her suffering.
    Last night she went in for what was supposed to be a bile duct repair due to the recurrent cholangitis, and they found a recurrence; a 2 by 2 cm tumour which wasn’t seen on any of her pet CT scans, or her CT or her ultrasounds. Her tumour markers were very low to start with and were coming even lower as they treated her with iv pip tazo and then moved onto imipenem since she developed resistance to the pip tazo. We are in Canada, doing some hybridized care between the US and here. Her oncologist is at the Seattle Cancer Care Center, because that’s where she chooses to be, even though we took her to NYC last fall to memorial Sloan Kettering with Dr Goodman who was great. She offered my mom targeted radiation therapy at that time and stated there is a crucial three month window post resection where you should do something if you’re going to do anything at all. My mom refused at that time, we struggled as a family of physicians, my husband is a radiologist, Dad is a doc, Sis is a doc, and myself albeit we are in different specialties, it truly has been a nightmare for us because as we help our own patients beat and maintain their chronic diseases on a daily basis, we endure the physical and deeply emotional suffering of my mom. Her fighting spirit has deteriorated, and she is post op right now, and doesn’t even know that the so called bile duct stricture as seen on HIDA scan and cholangiogram is actually a 2 cm tumour.

    I am awake at 4 am on this forum because this is a site which has been an invaluable resource to myself and my family. My husband keeps asking why they never did any MRIs on her over the last 6 months; she’s had multiple CT scans but he says that MRIs are more sensitive a specific, and can highlight the biliary tree very well. We live thousands of kilometers away from my family, that also makes it hard. I try to keep the hope for my mom, and try to ask her to treat it like a chronic disease, diabetes, asthma, etc. But she has trouble understanding this approach and has a huge amount of comorbid depression, understandably. She has been seein a counsellor and a neuropschiatrist with mixed results.

    All she can tell me is ” when I get better, I won’t be depressed anymore.” It is painful and heartbreaking for all of us, but especially her. They say half the battle is psychological, I wish she would take on a more positive and fighting spirit. We all need to be strong and band together for our loved ones.

    Goodluck with her progress, I agree you should always seek a second opinion.

    kavita1
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    Thanks PCL 1029 and Bill!

    I appreciate your comments greatly! My mom’s bilirubin is slightly elevated as well and she’s going to see a hepatologist tomorrow. She says she has slight yellow eyes and skin, but the docs think that could be due to a cholangitis or red blood cell destruction (anemia) as a gemzar/xeloda/neulasta side effect.
    May I ask where you were treated Bill?? My parents are in Vancouver B.C.

    Thanks a million!

    Kavita

    kavita1
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    Thanks Marions! Well my mom has started her oral Xeloda and goes for her first Gemzar on Monday; we’ll see how she does. They are planning for her to take the regimen from three to six months depending on the results of her follow up PET scan. Her original PET scan from two weeks ago showed no evidence of disease recurrence 5 months post surgery, so we all have our fingers crossed.
    Thanks for the kind words, hope everyone has restful holidays!

    in reply to: Metastases after successful resection #26101
    kavita1
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    Thanks so much for that informative post Kate!! I am reading every inch of this website with extreme passion and interest. It is an incredibly useful site!!

    Cheers
    Kavita
    The trouble we’re facing now is that my mom’s medical oncologist here in Canada has rejected the recommendation from Memorial Sloan Kettering to start the chemo regimen followed by focussed radiation, so we are waiting for the referral to another oncologist. Time is everything and if they don’t move up here in Canada, back to the USA we come asap!

    kavita1
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    Hi there everyone! I am new to this website as my mom was diagnosed in June 2010 and had her resection on July8th here in Canada. She had a bunch of complications and had to go back in for adhesion removal secondary to a bile leak that went out of control and sepsis, but she had a slow recovery and is now doing fine, despite lots of abdominal wound pain. My mom is getting ready to start Gemzar/Xeloda for a “close margin”, even though all the margins were negative. She tends to be really sensitive to many medications and can’t even tolerate IV gravol or IV morphine so she is soo worried about starting the chemo and is convinced she will have horrible side effects. I can palpate her fear. As her oldest daughter, it is hard. She is still so young at 58. We are still waiting though, because her med oncologist refuses to do the chemo for her stating there is no evidence for it in her case, so we are waiting for a referral to another oncologist (We got the advice to start the chemo combination at Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC with Dr. Karyn Goodman, who is a radiation oncologist); she suggested one week Gemzar and one week off with taking oral Xeolda daily (but we are also still waiting for her recommendation letter so we can give it to our doctors here). She is also following up the chemo with focussed respiratory gated radiation therapy for that one close liver edge after three months of chemo…any advice and experiences would be much appreciated! Thanks

    in reply to: Metastases after successful resection #26098
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    HI there,

    My mom also had a “successful” resection very recently, and now they want to start chemo and radiation. May I ask you a question, which chemo and what type of radiation therapy did you have? Thanks

    in reply to: My chemo experience Gezmar/Cisplatin #38268
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    I have read the posts above…it is clear you have had experience with the gemzar (aka gemcitibine); thanks for your postings..they are very helpful..especially the heating pad part..we are in Canada and we had to fly for a second opinion to NY because it seemed that all my mom’s doctors weer confused about her diagnosis as well as her management…if anyone else has had liver resection plus chemo and radiation..it would be great to hear from you!

    Cheers

    in reply to: My chemo experience Gezmar/Cisplatin #38266
    kavita1
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    Hi there,

    My mom at age 58 has been recently diagnosed with cholangiocarcinoma, we think the intrahepatic kind. No jaundice, and she had a liver resection this July, she has a bile leak which complicated things, didn’t allow her to eat and resulted in a second surgery in August to take care of her stomach so she could eat. Now her oncologists say she needs radiation and chemo for a close margin, we took her to New York Memorial Sloan Kettering with Dr. Goodman , who was wonderful, who spoke about placing my mom on the chemo regime gemcitiibine IV every other week and oral xeloda. Anyone have any experience with this?

    Much appreciated.
    Kavita

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