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  • in reply to: Today is my six-year anniversary #35440
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    Kristin:

    Wonderful, wonderful! I’m so happy for you.

    My husband Tom experienced a reoccurance about 20 months after his resection for CC. I’m going to tell him of your experience. He too was told that it ‘incurable’ and ‘inoperable’ and that he should go home and make his arrangements. His oncologist gave us no hope whatsoever and told us that radiation and chemo where not an option.

    We were not happy with that answer and immediately sought 2nd and 3rd opinoins. Tom’s tumor reoccurance is inoperable because of the placement and because it involves the hepatic artery. But for an oncologist to say that Radiation and Chemo is not an option was unbelievable.

    Our 2nd and 3rd opinoins agreed that it was inoperable, but disagreed with the no chemo and no radiation!

    After 28 rounds of Chemo Tom’s tumor has shrunk! His new oncologist agrees that she cannot ‘cure’ him but she feels that she can put him into remission and by remission she means shrinking the tumor with radiation and chemo so that the tumor is gone. Then it’s a regime of CTScans, etc watching for other reoccurances and treating them agressively like she is doing with this one. Tom currently cannot take chemo until they are able to stent his liver.

    I’m so happy for you and your story will be an inspiration to Tom to keep fighting and may be the motivation that he needs. I want another 23 months and then 6 years for Tom and then we’ll start over with another 23 months and 6 years!!!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: Good Scan results – that’s 2 in a row! #35517
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    Rick:

    AWESOME news! Keep it coming and I’ll be KICKIN and DANCIN for continued stablility and shrinking tumors. This battle is a hard one, don’t let anyone fool you. You are correct, you are fighting a battle for your life, don’t ever give up without a fight.

    You have been on my prayer list and I will continue praying for you. I’m a firm believer in the power of prayer!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!

    Margaret

    in reply to: Christina from Michgan; in regards to Chuck #35492
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    Hi Christina;

    Welcome to the best little site on the internet that no one truly wants to join, myself included.

    My husband Tom also has CC, he will be 63 on this coming Thursday, the 11th of Feb. He was initially diagnosed in March 2008, had a resection in June 2008 and had a reoccurance of a tumor in the remaining right biliary tree in Nov 2009.

    Tom’s new tumor is inoperable because of the placement and because it involves the hepatic artery. After 28 rounds of radiation, the tumor has shrunk but he has yet to start chemo because they have to be able to stent the liver first. You can read more about Toms journey under my login name mlepp0416. (My husband and Cholangicocarcinoma)

    CC is bile duct cancer. The liver is a vascular organ, so in a round about way I guess you could say that CC is a vascular cancer. But really it is a cancer of the bile duct, so in that respect it really isn’t a true vascular cancer.

    I do not have any experience with CC metastizing (sp?) to the colon, however I do know that it is possible. Before my husband Tom had his resection one of the criteria was that he had to have a colonoscopy to see if it has spread to the colon. Thankfully, his colon was clear as were his lungs and other body organs that they checked with CTScans. So far his CC has remained strickly to the liver bile ducts.

    Some doctors tell us that it is a slow growing cancer, others tell us that it is fast growing cancer. Some doctors tell us that it remains confined to the liver and others tell us that it can spread. (I really think that many doctors simply do not know because so few of them have experience with CC)

    Chuck is very lucky to have you as a friend. My advice would be:
    1) Do all the research you can. The internet is a great tool for that.
    2) Write down any questions you think of
    3) Quiz Chucks doctors regarding your questions.

    The first time we went to see a surgeon in Tom’s case, I had a two page list of questions based off my research, and I made the doctor answer every one of them.

    I noted his answers and when we went for a second opinoin, I asked the same questions of the 2nd doctor.

    I then did a comparison of their answers and we went with our gut instinct to NOT have the first doctor do Tom’s resection surgery.

    The first doctor was ‘old school’ and not up on more modern techniques and he’d only done “maybe 20 in my career” whereas the second doctor had done hundreds, was 30 years younger than the first doctor and she’d also done liver transplants.

    She was a great choice. And she had no problem answering all my questions and giving real human answers in terms we could understand.

    Tell Chuck that prayers from Wisconsin are coming his way.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34442
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    Thanks Gavin and Kris! I did talk to the nurse and found out how to take care of the foley cath and how to change from the day bag to the night bag. And chump sounds like a name for Dr. Somefield who did the procedure. I could think of other not so nice names for him also. I kind of like the “Pee Pee God” statement that Laniy said. When I file my complaint (after the Dr. who THINKS he is a pee pee God takes out the kidney stent and the foley cath) I will be mentioning that he needs to have a wee tiny bit of compassion for patients who are paying his salary because without them he would have nothing. And word of mouth is huge and my mouth will be telling everyone I know about this Dr and advising that if they ever need a Urologist to NOT go to him!

    Thanks for listening, again!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret and Tom

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34438
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    Lainy: Tom is going to get a new ‘pee pee God’ Too! Loved it and yes it did make me smile….actually I laughed out loud or LOL as one would say.

    Darla: Thanks, and this lady will be filing a complaint! That urologist is not a ‘pee pee God’ but he thinks he is!!!

    Night ladies!

    Margaret

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34435
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    It never stops does it? Tom had another visit to the ER on Sunday night, from 11pm to 3am… extreme pain that Vicodin did not touch so off we went to the ER. A CTScan revealed (finally) the kidney stone that was originally found on Dec. 4th. His right kidney is swollen and inflamed, and the radiologist took a second look at the ctscan and found the stone that they couldn’t find a month ago!!

    So today went back to the hospital for surgery, they lasered the stone from the inside and put a stent from the kidney to the bladder and the poor man now has a foley cath for the next 5 – 7 days (he says it’s only going to be 5 days!).

    He is getting so skinny and has no muscle left anywhere on his body. This is so sad and so very hard to deal with. I can handle the flushing of the bile drain and I can handle the draining of the foley cath bag and switching from the ‘day’ bag to the ‘night’ bag, but how does one deal with watching someone they love just waste away to skin and bones? That is the hard part. (sorry, I’m just venting here but feel the need to do so)

    Then you have doctors that come into the room and take a look at his external bile drain bag, grab it and say “What the heck is this and why is it here” and kind of try to toss it to the side. I was ready to kill him and if Tom hadn’t been in so much pain and needing to get that Kidney stone taken care of I would have decked him!

    I will be filing a complaint with the hospital about that urologist as he was very rude. No one explained to either Tom or I as to why he needed to have a foley cath for 5 – 7 days. The doctor did not come and talk to me after the procedure. They said it would be an hour and I missed the doc by three minutes (I was back in the waiting room after 50 minutes) and his comment when I had the waiting room person ask him to come talk to me, his comment “I did my duty I was there she was not”……what a jerk! I don’t think he will be taking the foley cath and the kidney stent out, I will be talking to Dr. Neal (my urologist) to have him take over the case. At least he has compassion! (this was the doctor that we were supposed to get and somehow we ended up with this moron)

    Ok, I’m done venting now! When it rains is pours eh?

    Go with God

    KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Love,
    Margaret and Tom

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34434
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    Janet:

    I’ve accepted you as a friend on FaceBook! Thanks. So happy to hear about your dad’s surgery. One thing that I would suggest in his case is to discuss chemo with his doctors. Tom did not have that after his resection and now all of his new cancer doctors are saying that if he’d had chemo after the resection (even with clean margins) he may not be in the situation that he is in today with a reoccurance.

    Prayers are coming your dad’s way from Wisconsin.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: My grandmother has cholangiocarcinoma #35456
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    Mimi:
    Welcome to the best site addressing CC on the internet. As many others I’m certain that you really didn’t want to join this site. However with that being said, you will find compassion from others on this site. I too, did not wish to join this site but am very happy that I did.

    My husband Tom is also fighting this terrible cancer. I do not know what his outcome will be or how long he really has. You can read about his journey under my login name mlepp0416.

    Since your grandmother raised you from an infant, you have many happy memories of her. Keep those memories alive by talking about her to your family. Create a scrapbook of any pictures and document those happier times.

    My husband too had the high bilirubin levels and has undergone radiation treatments for his inoperable reoccurance of CC. He had a liver resection in June 2008. Tom was lucky in the respect that he did not experience the terrible itching that you describe that your grandmother experienced. His bilibrubin level was up to 24.7 and after 28 radiation treatments it is now down to 9.1.

    He has lost a lot of weight and now also has an external drain which is giving him a lot of pain and discomfort. He wants the drain ‘gone’ and we will be discussing that tomorrow with his doctors. As his caregiver, I have to respect his wishes and if he decided to ‘give up the fight’ as your grandmother did, then that is what I have to do. Just like you, I am not ready to give him up, but he knows how much he can tolerate, and I would respect his wishes.

    Tom is 62, will be 63 on Feb. 11th. You don’t say how old your grandmother is, however, regardless of her age, Kudos to you for being supportive of her wishes.

    I’m not certain of ‘signs of what is next’. I do know that when / if the time comes, Hospice will ensure that your grandmother does not suffer. A long time family friend recently was diagnosed with cancer and it had spread throughout her entire body. She had no symptoms whatsoever until her stomach started bloating. It was then that they found the cancer. She too opted for no treatment, she was 88 years young. Within 6 weeks she was sleeping more and more and her family got her into home hospice. She passed away in her sleep 7 weeks after her diagnosis but never suffered because the Hospice team always kept her comfortable. And if nothing else, Hopsice will do the same for your grandmother.

    Prayers are coming your grandmothers way from Wisconsin.

    Go with God.

    Margaret

    in reply to: Re: Looking for Advice Regarding My Father #35414
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    Paul:
    Welcome to the best site on the internet that no one really wants to join, myself included. You can read my husband’s story under my login name mlepp0416.

    Tom has not yet taken Xeloda but we have $3000.00 worth of those little pills sitting on the shelf. If they are able to stent his liver now that the radiation has shrunk the inoperable tumor then he will be able to start on those pills.

    Tom’s tumor is inoperable because it involves the hepatic artery as well. However, his bilirubin level was up to 24.7 when he started radiation treatments. They had to put an external drain in becuase they could not get past the tumor with an internal drain. After 28 radiation treatments, the tumor has shrunk and his bilirubin level is down to 9.1. They will be trying to stent his liver next week.

    I can’t answer all your questions but it sounds like you are on the right track. But YES, certainly keeps asking questions, seeking other opinoins!!! As many as you need to! No one has an expiration date stamped on the bottom of their feet or on their butt!

    I’m sure that there are other chemo regimes that can be used if Xeloda does not work. It’s the first chemo drug that they wanted Tom to start on and in reading posts on this site, it appears that many people are put on that drug for this type of cancer.

    Go with God, prayers coming your dad’s way from Wisconsin.

    KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!!

    Margaret

    in reply to: Plan set #35373
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    Kris,
    Go with God and good luck on your upcoming surgery. Hoping and praying for the best possible outcome.
    Prayers from Wisconsin coming your way.

    Keep KICKIN’ THAT cancer!

    Margaret

    in reply to: New diagnosis of CC- so many questions! #35252
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    Hi Michelle:

    Welcome to the best little site on the web that NO ONE really wants to join, myself included!

    My husband Tom’s Journey with CC can be read under my login name mlepp0416.

    As to your question on how much time your dad really has. Well, no one knows for certain! When Tom’s liver enzymes elevated, it took weeks to get a diagnosis and we finally left the VA hospital and went to a civilian doctor who had a diagnosis with one ERCP! CC was a word that I never know until March of 2008. Tom had his rescection in June 2008 and after a long uphill battle of healing, no chemo and no radiation because his margins were ‘clear’ and he was ‘cancer free’ or so they said.

    We had a wonderful spring, summer and fall of 2009 and we no longer worried about Tom and his CC. He was cured. However in late November 2009, in fact on Thansgiving day I thought that Tom looked a little ‘yellow’ and just thought that I was looking for a worse case scenario.

    Two days later I asked my girlfriend if she thought he was turning yellow. She agreed. I took him to the ER of a local hospital where he had been diagnosed in 2008. A CTscan revealed a new tumor in the middle of the remaining right biliary tree.

    We consulted with his oncologist at the Iron Mountain Michigain VA hospital and he told us it was inoperable, that Chemo and radiation would not work and that he should go home and get his affairs in order and that he has 6 months at the most.

    We sought 2nd and 3rd opinoins. And we consulted with his original surgeon who did his initial resection. She agreed with the other doctors in that the tumor was inoperable, however, she thought that with Tom’s and my ‘fight’ that if anyone was a candidate for chemo and radiation that Tom would be the one.

    We chose to stay locally for his new fight with CC. Aurora Baycare medical center has the Vince Lombardi (GO PACKERS) Cancer Center and they are wonderful. Because the tumor was totally blocking the liver, chemo was out until they can get the liver stented. All his new doctors now are saying that after a liver resection, even with clean margins he SHOULD have had Chemo to kill any cancer cells floating around and that is standard protocal for their cancer center.

    The radiation oncologist that he is now seeing set him up for radiation to hopefully start killing the tumor. His bilirubin level rose to an all time high of 24.7 (normal is less than 1.3). We don’t know why Tom did not have any of the side effects of the high bilirubin levels such as intense itching or brain confusion but we are thanking our lucky stars.! Tom had a minor stroke in 2005 so that may be the reason that he didn’t get any of those side effects (that part of his brain may have been damaged??)

    After 28 radiation treatments, Tom’s bilibrubin level is down to 9.1 and we feel it will go lower yet. Because of the placement of the tumor, they were unable to get the stent into his liver, so he has had an external drain for the past two months which is also helping to lower the billy level. Next week they will try to stent the liver internally. (keeping fingers crossed on that one)

    On the 16th of Feb, Tom will have 23 months in since his diagnosis. The road has been bumpy and has had many twists and turns. Sometimes we feel like we’re hitting a brick wall. But we always try to keep a positive attitude and we have learned to not take a ‘no’ for an answer! We question every thing and want to know why something can’t be tried or done (and they better have a good reason!)

    We fired the oncologist who told Tom that nothing could be done as there is always something that can be done or something new that can be tried. Tom will be 63 on Feb. 11th and we’re hoping that he will have many more birthdays to celebrate. We’re not giving up on this one, and neither should your dad.

    Have your dad’s doctors thought about putting a stent into the liver from the outside? Tom’s tumor is 13cm from the intenstine and to do a stent via an ERCP the longest stent that they can use is 14cm else the stent bends and he would need a 16cm stent to get past the turmor. But a longer stent can be introduced from the external chest wall, it’s a dual procedure along with an ERCP. The wire from the inside goes past the tumor and the stent from the chest wall is placed onto that wire and pulled into position. This is the way they are going to place Tom’s Stent next week. You may want to question your dad’s Interventional Radiologists on this type procedure. A longer stent can be used with this technique.

    Rather than focusing on the length of time your dad has, focus on spending quality time with him and build those memories, take a lot of pictures! This past Christmas we got the entire family, his children, my children, all the grandchildren and got pictures of everyone! It was awesome!

    Remember that no one has an expiration date stamped on the bottom of their feet (or on their butt) and no one really knows how much time on has.

    I don’t know of any cancer centers in Canada (but I do know that Canada has some great fishing spots!) Do all the research you can and ask all the questions you can!

    Prayers are coming your way from Wisconsin, USA.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: External Drain Bag #35334
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    MSHopeful:

    My hubby Tom had a drain tube with a JP Ball on the end of it for 7 1/2 months along with a 2nd drain bag. We put a safety pin on the loop for the cap of the JP Drain and pinned it to his shirt. And a safety pin on the flat drain bag and pinned that to another part of his shirt. He was VERY happy when those were gone.

    Tom had a reoccurance of an inoperable tumor and his bilirubin level rose to 24.7 so now he has another drain, to drain the excessive bile off and we’re back to using a safety pin to pin the bag! When he showers we have a ‘belt’ made of soft material that he loops around his neck and he pins the drain bag to that.

    External drains are a nuisance and can be painful, but they serve a purpose. Tom’s bilirubin is now down to 9.1 and still going lower. He will have to have this drain bag until they can get the internal stent place (hopefully next week)

    Trust me, the safety pin will work!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!

    Prayers are coming your Dad’s way from Wisconsin!

    Margaret

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #35251
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    Marion, I would NEVER count you out! I just figured you hadn’t had time to check the site yet!

    LOL….

    You guys are Awesome!

    Margaret

    in reply to: treatment doesn’t seem to be working #35306
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    Kathleen:

    So sorry to hear about your Mom. Have her doctor’s talked about radiation?
    My hubby has a reoccurance (after resection of 3/4 of his liver) and his tumor is inoperable. He just finished 28 rounds of radiation and his tumor has shrunk.

    If your mom is well enough to travel by all means take her to Englad to see her grandchild!

    Go with God, prayers are coming your mom’s way from Wisconsin.

    Margaret

    in reply to: LET’S CELEBRATE #35316
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    Lainy and Teddy!

    WHAT AWESOME NEWS! You guys just keep KICKIN’ that cancer! And keep those feet a dancin! I’m so happy for the both of you.

    Margaret

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