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Darla,
Thank you for your post. My heart goes out to you because I know what an extremely hard time you are going through. I remember how I was at 4 1/2 months and it is a very hard road. Losing my husband Dom was the hardest thing by far that I have experienced so far in my life. My turning point seemed to be around at the 1 1/2 year time. It was like I was looking at the world and seeing a light after being surrounded in darkness. That’s the best way for me to describe my experience. It is difficult Darla and my heart goes out to you. You will make it through, you will be able to look at life again. I had a hard time believing this when people said these words to me because for me it didn’t seem like a possibility. They say “The only way through it is through it”. Remember to be good to yourself, it is important.
All the best.
PatsyThank you Carla and my best to you, I see you are a wife and caregiver. I had that role 2 years ago with my husband. It was a very difficult time for us to try to understand ‘why us’. I struggled with his death but came to be thankful that I was in his life to help him and that I would not trade for anything. My very best to you and your husband.
PatsyThank you so much Angela and Marion. And Angela my best wishes to you and your family member. It is so good to have a source for information. One has to be their own advocate for their health care or have someone step in and do it. I do not feel that everything can be left to the doctors to decide. One has to speak up and finding a source for information is a god send. Again thanks so much.
Patsy
