Well chemo is a no go for the wife. I am not surprised but uncertainty leads to hope and reality is different than suspicion.
She’s currently now with a new oncologist who is in contact with her Sloan doctors. She was admitted locally to a hospital (1 mile away) for fluids and electrolytes. The doctor doesn’t like palliative care as he feels he can do a better job of addressing and noticing issues that crop up. He has no issues admitting her if she needs fluids or a tpn or anything.
Will see what plan we decide on hopefully today , assuming she gets discharged today.
Now the rolling visiting of house guests will start as people want to see her. Thanks for all the support here