Not a good update
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April 5, 2009 at 3:49 pm #27904
marjo
SpectatorHarvey, Pam & Kristi: I am very sorry for your loss. Peace be with her.
Marjo
April 3, 2009 at 9:50 pm #27903marc-_from_oz
SpectatorDear Pam
We are very sorry to hear about your mother Helen Louise Whitfield Davis.
Unfortunately, we all on here know what you have gone/going through today.
Our thoughts are with you and your family in this time.
Always remember to “Smile through the tears”, she will be in your hearts for eternity.
Marc & all his family send their condolences
April 3, 2009 at 8:08 pm #27902glightfoot
MemberDear Pam,
I’m so sorry. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family.
G
April 3, 2009 at 1:27 pm #27901darla
SpectatorPam,
I am so sorry. You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am hoping that knowing you have everyone here to help & support you at this sad time will give you the strength to get by.
Love & Hugs,
DarlaApril 3, 2009 at 11:41 am #27900micsyl
SpectatorPam
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God bless, strengthen you and hold you all in HIS loving arms and may your Mom rest in peace.
with love
Michelle
April 3, 2009 at 10:23 am #27899magic
SpectatorDear Pam I knew it was close and I was thinking about you all this evening (my time).It will all be ok for you and your dad too,your mum was very loved.
love from Janet
April 3, 2009 at 9:47 am #27898cherbourg
SpectatorI would like all of you to know that Helen Louise Whitfield Davis (77) took her last sweet breath and passed from the arms of her loving family into the arms of her Lord Jesus at 1:43 am on Friday, April 3, 2009.
Harvey, her husband and her two daughters, Pam and Kristi were with her when she died. It was so beautiful and peaceful with no pain. Mom simply breathed one time and was gone the next moment. Mom and Daddy would have been married 58 years on April 27, 2009.
I’ll write more later.
Thank you all for being with me every step of this journey.
Smiling through my tears…
PamApril 3, 2009 at 6:08 am #27897marions
ModeratorDear Pam…we are with you.
Hugs
MarionApril 3, 2009 at 5:34 am #27896magic
SpectatorDear Pam it is a very strange place you are in at the moment,I know how surreal it seems-I have been there twice.You will get a bit of a second wind to get you through.I think you feel very close to your loved one and your family at this time and its good to be there wishing you strength Janet
April 3, 2009 at 3:43 am #27895tiapatty
MemberPam,
I know your mom can feel the love that surrounds her, everyone should be accompanied to the end with such comfort.
Patty
April 3, 2009 at 3:24 am #27894jamie-d
MemberPam,
I am new to this site but am praying for you and your family. I sat with my Mom when she passed away 10 years ago (not from cc). The last thing I did was recite the Lords prayer and tell her it was OK to go. She took her last breath and was gone. I am crying as I type, remembering… As a Mom myself and having CC I know how I would feel having my children there with me when the Lord calls me home. I believe she knows you are with her and that it means the world to her. She is blessed to have such a loving daughter. May God Bless your entire family as you go through this most difficult time. My prayers are with you,
JamieApril 3, 2009 at 3:13 am #27893roma35
MemberPam,
I have been thinking of you a lot lately. I am deeply sorry for you and your family. Even if we know it is inevitable, when it is no longer months or weeks, but days before our loved ones depart, the finality of it seems unbarable. My thought and prayers are with your mother, you and your family.
I pray for your strength and courage
BarbaraApril 3, 2009 at 3:10 am #27892cherbourg
SpectatorIt’s now 11:00. Mom’s breathing is becoming more shallow and her extremities are becoming cool. She thankfully is in absolutely no pain that I can detect. No restlessness, no grimacing – just quietness except for her breath sounds.
I’ve stroked her hands and told her how much I love her and that it’s ok to go. I hope and pray it will be soon.
I’m so comforted knowing you all are still with me on this journey. Seeing her in this state is bittersweet – knowing that I’m really losing her, but thanking God she is passing peacefully into his loving arms.
Please keep us in your prayers.
Pam
April 3, 2009 at 2:06 am #27891jmoneypenny
MemberDear Pam,
I have been down that road, too, and I know how your heart must be breaking. I wish I could make things better for you. Your mom is in my thoughts and prayers.
Joyce MApril 3, 2009 at 1:23 am #27890darla
SpectatorPam,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Darla -
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