Its been a very long time since I have written on this forum, I have forgotten how helpful everyone is!
My MIL has tumor that have spread from her bile duct / liver to her lungs and her spine. She has been on chemo for 13 months and they have just suggested she stop chemo and look into clinical trials.
She weighs 97lbs now. Just this week she started retaing fluid in her abdomin. They gave her lasik (sp) but it didn’t work. She has been unable to go to the bathroom, and then this morning she had blood in her urine and a fever of 100.4….
I’m worried this is a very bad sign…. can anyone tell me if they have experienced anything similar? She is at the drs now and is waiting for a culture to come back to see what is going on, but I’m so anxious I thought I would write here and see what anyone has to offer.
This is all so hard happening right around christmas.
Thank you
Lily