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Hello Carolyn,
I know how you feel and I can relate to every word coming from you that you wish you could have done more, I too wish I could have. My husband just passed away last July, 2011 and I am still in shock and can’t believe that he’s gone. I am in total denial and always feel that life is not fair, but again I have to move on because of the two beautiful girls he left me which always reminds me of him everytime I see their faces and hear their voices. We have to find a cure for CC, as to when, I don’t know…I feel helpless and I don’t know who to blame…I miss him so terribly that it hurts. I miss his unconditional love, his touch, his company…it is not fair, not fair at all!
Dear Carolyn,
I know exactly what you are saying and how you are feeling. I lost my husband to this disease 3 years ago and I still have these thoughts and feelings at times. I think we all do, but I know in my heart that we all did the best we could with the situations that were given to us to deal with and I am sure that our loved ones would want us to go on and be happy. I hope it helps to know that what you are feeling is normal and there are many of us feeling the same. We are all in the same boat and taking things one day at a time. He will always be with you in your heart and memories.
With Love & Hugs,
DarlaDear Carolyn, I think its normal to feel we could have done more but in truth we all do the best we can and to look back does not let us go forward as easily.
Remember that not even the Doctors are sure what to do with this Cancer, so we just provide the guidance and love and make our memories and get in to our ‘new normal’ as that is what is wanted by our loved ones that are gone.Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity.Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.it’s been 2 yrs since i lost my dear sweet husband to this terrible cancer. to say that i miss him terribly is an under statement. anyone who has fought or is fighting this disease is in my opinion the strongest people i will ever know in my life. i know that the families are hurting too. believe me, i did the best i could and still felt i should have done more but honestly i don’t know what more i could have done. God bless all of you facing this now
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