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  • #84044
    lainy
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    Shelley, oh my goodness, so good to see you, how are you doing????
    Mine started out with the radio in the car and after a few years they changed the station to news! GAH!
    But Teddy loves his electricity and though he does not come so often he makes quite a showing when he does. Now I started listening to the Instrumental channel on TV. I be darn, yesterday morning I turned it on in the middle of some song and the next one was MORE that was sung to us at our wedding! Oh, boy did I let loose….happy tears.
    I miss you Shelley and I hope you are doing well in your new normal.

    #84043

    I’m definitely going to pay more attention and look for these signs now!

    #84042
    darla
    Participant

    Shelley,

    That has happened to me at times too, usually when I am driving, but not as often as the electrical things. Also sometimes just seem to notice a familiar scent or just a feeling. Yes, it is amazing and comforting, isn’t it?

    Hugs,
    Darla

    #84041
    shellina
    Member

    I get signs through music. When I miss Al the most, or I am upset about something, one of Al’s songs will come on the radio and remind me that everything is alright. It’s amazing. :-)

    #84040
    darla
    Participant

    For me it is mostly electrical and pennies. I do think being more aware and sensitive to the signs makes them more obvious. Sometimes they are very subtle and can be easily missed or explained away.

    #84039
    lainy
    Member

    Amanda, there you go. I know Teddy comes around more at night and usually through electricity like a light that may be on and starts blinking. Funny he leaves me pennies but he leaves my Granddaughter and his Sister dimes! I asked for a raise! Now you can see what happens because you will be even more aware. I always say let people laugh, but there are more believers today than ever and it brings me comfort! It feels awesome and amazing to be part of transcending time and space. Hope you see and feel more now, it really helps.

    #84038

    Good morning Lainy,
    I’m very slack with my email, as I don’t check it as much as I should, but I received your email! Thanks a bunch for sending it to me. I never heard of the buzzing in the ear, and I find that VERY interesting. That actually happens to me quite often, usually at night when I’m getting ready to go to sleep. :)

    #84037
    lainy
    Member

    Amanda, I sent the Signs this afternoon, please let me know if you got it. I hope you recognize things that have been happening and then you will know Mom is round you!

    #84036

    Melinda,
    God bless YOU! Everybody on this site has touched my heart in some form. So thank you. Thank you all! :)

    #84035
    mbachini
    Moderator

    Dear sweet Amanda,
    Thank you so much for your reply. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers for me and my family! Glad to see you back here and checking in….keep in touch and God Bless you my dear, sweet girl!
    Melinda

    #84034

    Lainy,
    112 visits! That’s incredible!!!
    I would ABSOLUTELY love your list of signs. I remember one day I was sitting with my mom and I was completely inconsolable, she leaned into my ear and whispered, “no matter what, I will ALWAYS be with you. I will never leave you.”
    I admit there are times when I lose my mind and beg for her to show me a sign because I really need her. At those times, I lose hope.
    Your list would be very much appreciated.
    My email is amandalapsley@me.com.
    Thank you so so much.

    #84033
    lainy
    Member

    Amanda, not sure if you are a believer but there are many of us on this site. I find comfort in believing that my husband is around me and I have logged 112 visits in 5 years. It brings me a great deal of comfort. I have a list of Signs to look for and if you like I would be happy to send it to you via email. Some things may be happening that you just don’t realize is your Mom telling you she is around you!

    #84032

    Absolutely Gavin. I agree 100%. Keeping positive thoughts helps me get through the tough days. You just gotta keep on keeping on:)
    Just remember that your father never left you. I remind myself this daily. They will never leave us. We just can no longer see them.

    #84031
    gavin
    Moderator

    Amanda,

    Thank you for your kind words. You are so right that time does indeed make things easier and for everyone the healing process will be different in many many ways. For some it may be quicker and for others it may take longer but none of us ever forgets do we? To have days and nights that are difficult is so normal and that is something that we all go through. When that happens to me I like to look back and think of the happier and fonder memories of my dad and I so hope that you can do that also with your mum.

    Please know as well that we are all here for you always and we so know what you are going through.

    Hugs,

    Gavin

    #84030

    Melinda,
    Your kind words have touched my heart. From the depths of my heart, I want to thank you and your family for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers. I too will have you and your family in my prayers. And my apologies for taking so long to reply.
    Thank you. With love, Amanda.

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