Jeanne,
As I’ve recently found out, the minute you have metastses, docs won’t consider surgery. However, if you are determined, it pays to keep asking around. I’m sure others will chime in here. Keep fighting the fight and just know that there are a lot of people on this site who are pulling for you. Keep us informed how things are turning out. This is a hard thing to go through but together, we can lighten the load somewhat.
Prayers coming your way.