Hi Janet,
I know what you mean. At the beginning, when Butch first passed, I was, for the most part only able to visit the grief section – actually only the posting that Sue, Darla Pauliune, and I still write on (Anthony). Everything else was just too much for me, and I WAS worried I would be a “downer” to other people. As time has passed, however, I like to check on the others here, and I rejoice at their good news, and, yes, feel sorrow at the bad news. I find it helpful, though, and it seems to help me with my healing process. I imagine that – in the future – you will also. Please join us on our “thread” – we would love to spend time with you.
Love – Joyce C