Dear Pak, yes, your Mom and you have been through a terrible ride, again the one no one wants to buy a ticket for. But we do love the “shrinkage” word. You are right that the best RX to get the Caretaker through is to be strong! I just cannot stress that enough and I know we are all different but somehow we have to dig way down as it is the ONLY way to get through this monster. Not only will it get you through but the patient knows they can rely on our strength to make them feel secure relieving stress for them so they can use their energy to get better. You never know how strong you are until “strong” is the only choice you have!
I asked for strength.
God gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom.
God gave me problems to solve.
I asked for prosperity.
God gave me brawn and brain to work.
I asked for courage.
God gave me dangers to overcome.
I asked for patience.
God placed me in situations where I was forced to wait.
I asked for love.
God gave me troubled people to help.
I asked for favors.
God gave me opportunities.
I received nothing I wanted.
I received everything I needed.