January 23, 2011 at 1:28 am #38093
Thirdtime….Welcome and sorry to hear of the recent developments with your husband’s cancer. You have found the right place, and as Lainy has mentioned, others will come along soon to share their thoughts with you.
A link has been established by our members pertaining to physicians and centers familiar with this cancer including, those from the UK. I hope this helps:
All my best wishes,
MarionJanuary 23, 2011 at 1:18 am #38092
It is with a sad heart that I have to inform you Kim and Kathy that our Kristin passed away last year. She was a shining star, as so many of our brave fighters have been and her legacy will stay with us as long as this discussion board will be in existence. She is deeply missed.
I am so sorry to have to be the one passing on the news to you however, I felt it to be the right thing to do, as your conversation with her will not be answered and I feel that you need to be informed of the reason.
Again, I am so sorry to have to pass on this heartbreaking news to our newcomer.
All my love,
MarionJanuary 22, 2011 at 8:33 pm #38091chezwrightaol-comParticipant
Kim…did you have your scan? How did it turn out? You might have posted on another section and I’ve missed it but I’m hoping all turned out positively for you. Two more days til my scan.. Thanks for your encouraging words..”This disease CAN be conquered, but you must fight to win.”
Kristin, Your story is inspirational..you HAVE done so much and I will go back to it every time I feel I can’t do something or don’t have time left to do it.
Love to all, KathyDecember 27, 2010 at 6:37 am #38090kimcirucciParticipant
I’ve read all of your posts & want to respond to everyone. First of all, Kristin, I totally agree with what you’ve said and yes you are a survivor since you are surviving. My story is listed under the Intro section as “My inspirational story”. Since it’s so long, I won’t reiterate. As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t know if I will ever believe I am a cc survivor or even cancer-free, but to date, I have undergone ex vivo resection with a lot of reconstruction. This is a very rare type of surgery. I believe my surgery was the 6th one performed by my miracle worker surgeon, Dr. Kato. Although I was told in July following my surgery that I was cancer-free, I will forever be looking over my shoulder. As a matter of fact, I have a CT Scan scheduled for 12/28 & I must admit that I am a bit nervous to know of the results. I just keep positive & won’t allow my mind to drift onto negative thoughts. I have fought quite a few battles during the past year & I’m certainly not about to stop now. Regardless of what this next CT Scan shows, I will face it with my eyes wide open & fight with all of my might as I always do. It truly saddens me when I hear of people who begin to “give up”. I know all too well what it feels like to not be able to get out of bed, or to feel like you’re not going to make it, but through it all, I never allowed giving up to be an option. If anything, the more I was told that I was inoperable, the madder I got & the more I found the strength to fight even harder. As I mentioned, I will know in about another week if my CT Scan is still clear, but all I can say is I am alive today & feeling very well. I was able to Christmas shop for my children, partake in Christmas festivities, eat like a pig, and hug my daughters on Christmas morning. My current oncologist said that I should not be alive right now and that he believes someone took me by the hand. I truly believe that as well. He never even heard of the type of surgery I had, but he said he is certainly going to tell other doctors about it. During my recuperation period from my extensive surgery (5 months ago), I have even designed a pendant/bracelet for cancer patients. It is currently being made in China. I should have the finished product in a few weeks. The purpose of my pendant is to provide cancer patients with a sense of empowerment. Although we don’t have much control over this nasty disease, we do have control over our ability to fight. If anyone is interested in seeing my design, I would love to share it with you. To anyone who feels as though they want to give up, I would like to leave you with the words of one of my favorite quotes by Jack Dempsey which states: “A Champion is Someone Who Gets up Even When He Can’t”. Please never give up. Get up & keep on fighting!! This disease can be conquered, but you must fight to win. Best wishes & God bless to all!!December 27, 2010 at 1:17 am #38089lainyParticipant
Hello thridtimelucky and WELCOME to our wonderful family. First I would like to tell you that where my husbands duodenum used to be is right where the cancer returned. Second if a doctor told me to go home and die, I would definitely get another opinion rather quickly! We do have quite a number of our family in the UK and I am positive they will be coming along soon, with more suggestions for you. Personally I would not wait until the 26th for the next scan I would get in and get another opinion now. Just gather all the test results and another Oncologist will either back up the prognosis or give you a plan. When my husband was told in June that the only thing he could do was Palliative Chemo it was the hardest decision of his life but had to be his decision. He chose no chemo. When the cancer first returned we opted for Cyber Knife which bought Teddy another 2 years. The tumor must be uner 7cm to have Cyber Knife. If you go with another opinion please make sure the ONC has had experience with CC. I wish you and am sending you all the best wishes I can along with a ton of good luck. Please keep us posted.December 26, 2010 at 11:56 pm #38088thirdtimeluckyMember
My husband was diagnosed with cc in the bile duck, isolated, resectable, v small tumour in April 2010. he had an operation on July 1, 2009 and was told that the prognosis was very good. In April 2010 he began to experience indigestion symptoms when on holiday and after eating fatty food he was not used to. He had a CT Scan which was normal but same symptoms continued on and off which became worse when on holidays. By the end of September he was admitted to hospital and after three endoscopies and several scans he was told
he had an obstruction, scar tissue from the operation which eventually led to an
operation in order to by pass the stricture. The operation was one on Nov 3, When he was told that the cancer had returned and there is nothing they can do.He finds it extremely hard to cope with the prognosis and the idea that he was told that “he needs to get used to the idea of dying”… I have read A lot about the body-mind medicine and we have consulted an integrated medicine doctor. That experience was a positive one but my husband is now having a lot of doubts regarding the stove or complementary practices. He is a medical doctor and it is difficult for him to open up on new ideas. The oncologist is pushing towards chemo (but cannot remember the names of the drugs) which mostly do not work and if they do will prolong his life at the end bynthree months. He is not readied to make this decision. In fact he seems lost regard g everything including fighting even if he may have a small chance to survive or live with the cancer. Could anybody help us with some different ideas or suggestions?
2010 and three days later the surgeon told him that the cancer was back and it was a tumour mass under the scar tissue in the deodinum and this was the reason it was not showing in the scan. He also said that there is nothing they can do and whatever wil happen will happen. the gastroenterologist and the oncologist told him that it is a rare toe of cancer, they don’t know much about it and so there is nothing they can do so he must get used to the idea of dying! he oncologist told him that he can have chemo which, if it will work, it will give him an extra three months at end…however there is nothing else they can say. He is shock and talks very little… I researched the Internet and read quite a bit about the body-mind medicine that involves a special diet alkaline diet, supplements, mediation, accupuncture, yoga, visualisation exercises and physical fitness (walking, running, etc). We have actually had a consultation with an integrated medicine doctor, who is a qualified general medicine practitioner with 25 years expediente with cancer patients. My husband has another scan on January 26, 2011 in order to look for any spread. He feels confused regarding the chemo and under a lot of pressure to make a decision himself. We live in the UK and the oncologist is in our regional hospital with little experience on this type of cancer. Is there anyone who can help us with any alternative ideas?
He began taking the supplements and followed the special diet for three weeks but he is now having doubts about continuing with the body-mind medicine. I don’t know how to help him because he refuses to even think about anything I suggest including getting second and medical opinions. Even though I am not in denial of the medical opinion, I still believe that we need to look at what they do elsewhere and consider all the recommendations of the body-mind medicine.May 20, 2010 at 11:38 pm #38087
Rick is in the process of collecting survivor stories before he launches the new program. So please, step forward and submit.
Thanks to all,
MarionMay 20, 2010 at 11:16 pm #38086
Thanks so very much, Dale. I wish that you and I had more time to connect while at the symposium therefore, your story will make up for part of it.
I am hoping for us to meet again real soon.
MarionMay 20, 2010 at 11:10 pm #38085dmeekParticipant
Hi Marions – I sent my story via email to Rick earlier this week. Along with a link to a blog of my cancer journey. Thanks!! DaleMay 18, 2010 at 3:12 pm #38084
Kristin…..We don’t only think rather, we KNOW that your story will bring joy to all. Thanks for doing it.
Good luck on Friday. I can’t wait to see your drain problem finally solved. You are too busy chasing the aliens.
Hugs coming your way,
MarionMay 18, 2010 at 12:14 pm #38083kristinParticipant
Thanks for your kind comments. OK, I’ll send that story to Rick, if you think people might enjoy it.
The ONLY good thing cancer has done for me is to make me get up and actually do all the things that people say “someday, I’d love to…” I think I drive my family and friends crazy because I always want to do everything NOW! There are still plenty of things on my list– make more art, go to Montreal and speak French, and get at least some of my books published. I’ve had rotten luck with that (not with the textbooks.)
Marion, on Friday I’m off to a different hospital to have a different doctor put in a new drain. My onco and I are both disgusted with the “don’t bother me, I’m a superstar” aproach of the first guy.
Hugs to all,
KristinMay 18, 2010 at 4:39 am #38082
Thanks Linda. Kristin, are you up to sending your story to Rick? And please, anyone else?. Knowing Rick, he will find the perfect spot to display it. It will be a great way of starting the day.
Best to each and everyone,
MarionMay 18, 2010 at 4:20 am #38081linda-zParticipant
Wow Kristin! I wish I could accomplish half as much as you. Anything still left on your to do list? (if you have one, that is!).
Marion, I know that I get great strength hearing of other success stories. And Kristin IS one of those. Also the longevity issues matter a lot. Some of us might still think we have a date stamped on our foot, but hearing of those that have gone a distance, gives us more hope and we keep trying and get more informed on our illness so we can fight it more with our doctors.
Thanks for this.
Linda Z.May 17, 2010 at 12:15 pm #38080lalupesParticipant
You are a TRUE SUCCESS, Kristin & long, long, long may you continue to be so!!!
Julia xxMay 17, 2010 at 4:41 am #38079
Kristin….thanks right back at you. I am wishing for the drain to finally do what it is meant to do. What do you mean by haywire? Are you still itching?
I have admired you long before your sweet husband had you realize that you are are a success.
Hugs coming your way,
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