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    Jean-Marie,

    I feel such saddness for you. I know you did everything in your power to keep your Jeff with you…to get the best possible care for him. We always wonder if we could have done more, but that is second guessing, Please know that our hearts ache right along with you, as they do every time we hear that someone has lost their war with CC. But no one can know your personal grief. There are many, unfortunately, on these boards, who have lost their loved ones to this cancer and I’m sure they’ll be along soon to post a note to you.

    Hugs,…Julie T.

    iowagirl
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    Serena,

    My resection was at the end of Feb this year and I’ve had various twinges…ranging from sharp, sudden pains to more subtle “pain” from time to time. It’s generally transient….can’t remember it ever lasting for days…mostly just for a moment and then nothing else for a long time. One time, though, the pains came and went all of one afternoon that sort of freaked me out. I talked to my oncologist about it…and she said too, that it was from the nerve endings being cut. A resection is a very invasive surgery…and they do a lot of manipulation of “stuff” inside of us during the process. My GP said that after she read the surgical report, it was no wonder I hurt….they had done that much and that was just to remove only the left lobe.

    Anyway….it sounds to me like both of our oncologists agree that it is likely nerve endings. I haven’t had any of the twinges for quite some time now….maybe 4 months…..and have had all clean CT scans, so my bets are on the nerve endings.

    in reply to: Feeling down #85814
    iowagirl
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    Porter….Hooray!!!! Wow…I love your surgeon…..she’s got your back big time. Enjoy, Enjoy, Enjoy this time with your family/kids. I couldn’t be happier for you. Big hugs!

    Julie T.

    in reply to: My wonderful husband #85972
    iowagirl
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    Hugs and more hugs. I’m so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing from CC, but yet you draw comfort in the fact that his passing was peaceful and with those whom he loved and loved him.
    Julie T.

    in reply to: 3 month scan…Mayo #85663
    iowagirl
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    Thanks Duke…sometimes I need a good thwock to the side of the head to bring me back to center.

    in reply to: Why do some people become doctors? #85908
    iowagirl
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    Hey Duke…happy birthday. Sounds like you celebrated perfectly. Here’s to next year’s celebration!

    in reply to: Why do some people become doctors? #85905
    iowagirl
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    OMG Duke…..you were far more charitable and patient with this %&*& than I would have been. As I’ve gotten older, I have less time for condescending people in any walk of life, let alone doctors. On the other hand, my husband (also an engineer/scientific type) has become more patient and absolutely more diplomatic when dealing with this type. We’ve sort of traded roles. As I read through your posts though, my jaw just dropped…..further and further with each line. There are major CC doctors and surgeons as advisors on this site…..but somehow the guy you saw thinks he’s better than them….that this website isn’t good for patients. REALLY? Gah…makes me sick to my stomach when I hear stories like this….and from a patient standpoint….the wasted time getting the appointment and being at the appointment…only to get a short shrift. A pox on his white coat!!!

    in reply to: 3 month scan…Mayo #85661
    iowagirl
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    As usual, Duke…you’re to the point and ….. you’re right. I’d tell you to make this Christmas like others, not be frantic about it….sit back and take some time to really enjoy it. Now….to follow my own advice.

    in reply to: 3 month scan…Mayo #85659
    iowagirl
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    Serene, thank you. I’m trying to do as much as possible to make this a “normal” Christmas. We cancelled out of a Christmas party tonight, when I found out this noon that the hostess (who was also making the main food) had been sick to her stomach all last night. I couldn’t believe that they hadn’t called everyone to cancel…or at least warn us. I do not want to spend my holidays being sick because of this….so we just didn’t go. Instead…we went out to dinner with other friends…and in the process, I made plans with one to put together a gingerbread house with her next week. (I used to bake and decorate cakes, etc for 29 years). It will be a fun time…just the two of us…getting the houses stuck together so her grandkids can decorate them. I’m having a little problem now and then trying to convince myself that everything is okay. I start thinking about all the what ifs….and that maybe I should be pushing harder to do everything and anything to cram all the Christmases into this one…just in case. But, I know the quality of the Christmas won’t be the same. I just need to take a deep breath….and let life happen. Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas to you as well.

    Kris V.

    in reply to: Squamous cell cholangiocarcinoma #84939
    iowagirl
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    Kris….Interesting that you should mention that about the oncologist suggesting that when a primary cancer location can’t be found…that it might mean that the body had fought off the primary cancer, but not before it metatasized. THAT is exactly what my GP told me. She said that the main cancer could also be so small as to not show up on a CT or any other scans…but still be there and metatasized. But, knowing that it was an adenocarcinoma gave them something to go on to fight it even if the primary cancer stayed hidden from diagnosis.

    As you know, I was originally diagnosed with cancer of unknown primary…and only the surgery diagnosed what it really was….Intrahepatic CC. A friend of ours was also diagnosed with cancer of unknown primary….the only visible cancer on scans being in her liver. Looking back now, I suspect that they missed the diagnosis of bile duct cancer. She only went to local doctors here….not a big cancer center….or else I think they may have figured it out.

    Julie t.

    in reply to: MRI of cholangiocarcinoma. #85885
    iowagirl
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    Lainy…thank you for the info on the CT vs MRI. The PET sign is a hilarious story. You should definitely tell it….at least on here. It’s the good kind of laugh we all need….and besides….a bunch of us probaby would think the same if we saw that sign. Our hospital doesn’t have any “special” parking for scans….except for the women’s center mammograms.

    in reply to: High liver level tests #85911
    iowagirl
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    Patty, Your oncologist is absolutely right….you don’t have to have one of the “known” hepatitis viruses to have hepatitis. About 5 years ago, my husband (not a CC patient) had night sweats, which he didn’t tell me about right away. When I found out, I marched him to the doctor for testing. He was negative to all known varieties of Hepatitis, but his liver enzymes were through the roof. They did a lung x-ray and found nodule on his lung. ACK! Did a biopsy…and collapsed his lung in the process….no malignancy there. All tests came back negative…no cancer they could find. Eventually, his GP sent him to an infectious disease doctor who told him that since everything had been eliminated, he had what was an unknown type of viral hepatitis. That is….it wasn’t one of the usual…A, B, C….etc. There is no test to see if it is a hepatitis variety…because it is as of yet, “unknown or labeled.” He told my husband that people get these more frequently than you might expect, but unless they re getting a blood test for some reason that just happens to show the elevated enzymes, most people never know that’s what’s wrong with them. Most cases are fairly mild….my husband just happened to have some stronger symptoms that were very scary. When we looked back….I had had a “mild” illness just before he got sick…and it well my have been the same stuff…it just hit his system harder. This isn’t telling you something else it “could be”, but what they are telling you sounds reasonable to me.

    in reply to: For my dad. #85922
    iowagirl
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    Prayer for your dad, Gavin.

    in reply to: Chemo and Radiation question #85867
    iowagirl
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    DMiller…sounds like some good news to me….good chemo response….embolization…and even surgery,…..and doctors who use the terms, “long and healthy life,” Happy Dance!!!

    in reply to: Feeling down #85831
    iowagirl
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    Ditto what Duke said.

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