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  • in reply to: Panic attack #59067
    jmgrisolia
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    Thank you Kris for these kind words. Please, keep us updated with your resection.

    PS I took sometimes alprazolam as well if I feel hopeless

    Hughs
    Jose

    jmgrisolia
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    Dear friends,

    You might have noticed this paper about a clinic trial that shows how after 12 cycles of GEMOX 30% of patients switch from palliative to curative medicine.

    http://www.lancet.com/journals/lanonc/article/PIIS1470-2045%2810%2970247-3/abstract

    Cetuximab, gemcitabine, and oxaliplatin in patients with unresectable advanced or metastatic biliary tract cancer: a phase 2 study

    in reply to: Panic attack #59065
    jmgrisolia
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    Hi Kris and Lisa,

    Thank you for your posts. Yes I think you are taking Lorazepam which is within the same family of benzodiazepines than Xanax (alprazolam). She is taking now this medicine and she is doing fine at night with panick attacks. We are taking shifts to take care of her during night. It’s really hard.

    Kris, good luck with your resection. Everything will be fine.

    Hughs
    Jose

    in reply to: Panic attack #59062
    jmgrisolia
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    Good point Marion. Certainly, the main obstacle for paracentesis was that it was incredible painful for her, with local anestesya. There must be something wrong here…I am going to find out talking to her physician. Thanks for the information.
    Hughs
    Jose

    in reply to: Panic attack #59060
    jmgrisolia
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    I see Julia, thanks for the information. Sometimes I wonder if there were a way to replace somehow the liver function, using drains and duiretics…this would be ideal. I see that we have here a double battle: against tumor and avoiding an hepatic failure.

    in reply to: Is moderate exercise good? #59073
    jmgrisolia
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    Yes, sure. It’s not exactly exercise, just walking slowly in the garden, takin sun and some air.

    in reply to: Is moderate exercise good? #59071
    jmgrisolia
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    Liz, thanks a lot for your answer. It sounds very reasonable, we will follow this advice.

    in reply to: Panic attack #59058
    jmgrisolia
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    Thank you to all of you for your support. I just want to know if she can be drained often and painless. This will help a LOT to her quality of life. Also I have some doubts about nutrition but I think there is an specific link for this.

    Jose

    in reply to: Panic attack #59057
    jmgrisolia
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    kris00j wrote:
    Jose:
    My personal experience: I used to sleep in total darkness with no light or noise. Since my diagnosis I need the TV on. I leave the sound on really low but when I wake up during the night I find it comforting to have the tv as a companion.
    I don’t know if your sister can sleep all night, but I only get 2 or 3 hours at a time between waking up.
    As for the medical problems, I wish I could help you. I hope you and your sister find a doctor that can help her.

    Yes Kris, this is very similar to her pattern of behaviour. One thing: Do you take anything to control your anxiety?

    Hughs
    Jose

    in reply to: Panic attack #59056
    jmgrisolia
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    Lalupes wrote:
    Jose, when my sister had ascites, her breathing sounded terrifying to me; she wheezed and rattled and I couldn’t believe anyone could breathe so badly and yet still take in enough oxygen to stay alive. The doctors said the build-up of fluid in her abdomen was pressing on her diaphragm and compressing her lungs but that she was still managing to absorb enough oxygen to keep all her organs functioning.

    Once the fluid was drained, her breathing went back to normal.

    I do hope you can talk to someone who can give you some answers. My sister likes a light on all night, too, and to have the doors open between our bedrooms, so she knows I’m near. I’ve taken to sleeping with an eye-mask, as I can’t sleep with too much light. That way, we’re both as comfortable as possible.

    What an amazing brother you are. Hugs to you both.

    Julia x

    Thank you very much Julia. Please, tell me: how often is your sister drained? With paracentesis? How do they deal with the pain?

    Hughs
    Jose

    in reply to: Panic attack #59055
    jmgrisolia
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    marions wrote:
    Jose….Please, help me understand: have you spoken with her treating physician? Has he/she treated patients with liver disease? Has the ascities been addressed? Diuretics, has it been mentioned? Draining of abdominal fluids (Paracentesis) has it been discussed?
    I would not worry too much about taking drugs and the possible side effects. It is of most importance that your sister is made comfortable.
    Jose, if her abdominal fluid is increasing at this rate then your sister needs to be seen by a physician, who understands liver disease.
    If not available then I would consider taking her to a hospital. I am not a doctor however; I believe that the increased pressure caused by the fluid may make it difficult for her to breath. I also believe that it is important to have a “frank” discussion with the doctor. You are a wonderful brother; may you have continuous strength to draw from.
    Hugs and love,
    Marion

    Thank you for your kind words Marion, now, let me reply your questions:
    1- Yes. During the night a GP from the emergency room (A&E) of the NHS come along, provide her with alprazolam, checked that she was alright and left. In the noon next day still without any sleep and absolutely weak and full of anguish she talked to her oncologist. He said: “OK, you have a panic attach, you can breathe…” and he prescribed her alprazolam. 2- I don’t know if this oncologist has treated patients with liver disease but I guess he does not ignore the effect of these medicines on liver diseases… he might think it’s a trade off and its worthy to use it…3- My sister is taking diuretics. At the beginning it worked and the swallowed abdomen shrinks BUT recently it exploded again. However, in the morning it was 4 centimeters less. I believe that a paracentesis will suit her well but its extremely painful for her (She had it once, two liters). So here is another question: Is it possible to live with periodical paracentesis, lets say one every other week? and more: Is it possible to use total anesthesia for this procedure? The main problem is that local anesthesia did not work too much and she suffered with the extraction
    Thank you very much Marion
    Hughs

    in reply to: Is skin rashes a sign that chemo is working? #59002
    jmgrisolia
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    I dont know, she is on GEMOX. I don’t know if Tarceva has something to do with GEMOX. Her face… I am not sure. I hope chemo is working..

    in reply to: Is skin rashes a sign that chemo is working? #58999
    jmgrisolia
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    What should I think then? Is that a good sign?

    in reply to: Is skin rashes a sign that chemo is working? #58996
    jmgrisolia
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    Thank you Eli. She is taking GEMOX ( Gemcitabine + Oxaliplatino ). Does it fall into those categories?

    Jose

    in reply to: Odd ideas and cachexia #58953
    jmgrisolia
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    Thank you Marions. We are checking now, this very soon this morning. She is the type of woman that never-complain when she is in pain, which obviously does not help.

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