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SpectatorYour news makes me very happy. I hope you continue to be well & to reach all your goals. I send best wishes for your son’s graduation & beyond.
Love Julia
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SpectatorThanks, Gavin – I’ll look into it at once. xx
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SpectatorMarion – thank you for such a truly inspiring post. I hate my reason for having heard of cc, but I’m so immensely proud to be part of this amazing group of people.
Lainy – “gutsy little broad” –
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SpectatorThank you, Darla & Lainy. Susan’s getting bored in hospital, now, which I find a reassuring sign. The hospital she’s in is a general medical hospital, not her usual specialist one & they’ve said they can’t make assumptions like specialists have the expertise to do, so they’re doing all the tests they can possibly come up with, even if they turn out to be unnecessary. I think she’s being very well cared for
Lainy, thanks – I forgot about the “Sensitive” warning. I can’t edit the heading but have edited the start of the posting.
Julia
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SpectatorToenails, Jim?? Bleughhhhh!! lol
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SpectatorLaura is smooooofing at you with all the hugs & sloppy kisses a self-absorbed calico-tabby can manage!!
Lots of love from Julia, Susan, Nanette (our mum) & Laura xxxx
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SpectatorDearest Andie, I do so feel for you. You are doing all you can do & you can’t do anything more. She’s hurting &, sadly, can’t see how much you’re hurting, too. I have experience of similar reactions – although in different circumstances – & all I could do was do my best to let it wash over me. Sometimes I could, & sometimes I couldn’t.
No, you don’t now how she feels but she doesn’t know how you feel either. Please try not to feel guilty about having someone at home when she doesn’t. She is so lucky to have such a wonderfully loving daughter &, when she’s ready to let go & grieve, I know you’ll be there for her & I know how lucky she’ll be to have you then, too.
But YOU need to have time & space to grieve, too. Go to Florida & relax with your husband & son. I hope you have a wonderful time. You need to build up your strength for yourself & your two boys & then you’ll have strength to support your mum again.
Lots of love
Julia xxxlalupes
SpectatorYour co-worker’s comment must have hurt you a lot, Terry. Grrrrrrr to such insensitive people.
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SpectatorBoth, Gavin!! Your shower head (bought from a non-spammer, of course) & Rick’s boot should work wonders
xx
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SpectatorSuzannegm wrote:… one of the many people that are forever changed for having gotten to know Kris through this board, even though most of us never met her face to face, but because of her gift of sharing herself on this board, we all felt we knew her.Suzanne – thank you, thank you for keeping us in touch with Kris with such a wonderful post. When you wrote the quote above, it made me feel I was actually there – as one of the many people who never met Kris but knew her through her posts & miss her very much.
Julia x
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SpectatorAndrea, this is a gorgeous poem!! I’ve never heard of it before but it struck such chords.
Thank you for posting it.
Thinking of you xx
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SpectatorYou are amazing, Hans – I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but your light touch & humour bring a bitter-sweetness to an awful situation. Please keep “bumping” this thread to the top as often as you can – it certainly helps me cope with the day-to-day realities. I just hope it helps you as much as it helps me (&, I hope the rest of us, too).
Julia x
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SpectatorDear Andrea – you are amazing, too.
February 19, 2011 at 7:41 pm in reply to: Reminder: How To Establish a Local Cholangiocarcinoma Support Group #48183lalupes
SpectatorI got there, got in & got on!! I’m so proud of myself
It was a great webinar – my very first!!
Thanks for organising this. I’d really like to get a support group going here.
February 19, 2011 at 6:48 pm in reply to: Reminder: How To Establish a Local Cholangiocarcinoma Support Group #48182lalupes
SpectatorThanks, Gavin!!
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