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  • in reply to: percutaneous drain #77477
    lisas
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    Pat, I don’t know much about the stents or what happens if they get blocked. We’ve talked a bit about stents in my case, but I think my oncologist wants to wait to see if it’s possible that I can get my tubes out completely after my radiation. It’s my understanding that changing the metal stints out is harder – more potential scarring, although they don’t have to be changed as often as the plastic tubes.

    Sorry I don’t have more info.

    in reply to: Change in the Chemo Routine #79027
    lisas
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    I don’t know about tolerating chemo for years. I’ve only been in chemo since November, but it’s my understanding that tumors can build resistance and the effects of chemo build, so there are limits to what someone’s body can tolerate.

    Good news that he is tolerating chemo well.

    in reply to: How much more can she endure? #78636
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    marions wrote:
    Lisa, if you are able and willing to do so would you please be so kind and explain to us the positive aspects of the surgical bypass.

    Hugs,
    Marion

    At 130 lbs, mine wasn’t for the typical reason. But, after my cholangiogram/PTC drain procedure in October, I was back in the hospital in less than 72 hours because I was so severely dehydrated and could not keep anything down – food or liquid. It took several days to figure out my tumor was squeezing my duodenum, which was the cause of my not being able to eat or drink and the resulting dehydration. The gastrojujenostomy (which is what, in essence, a gastric bypass is) re-routed things around the blockage so that I could eat.

    I lost 20 lbs in short order, which I didn’t really have to lose, because of that blockage from the tumor. If they hadn’t done the re-rout, I don’t think I’d be here 3 months later.

    So, even though it’s tough surgery, I hope it brings relief to ilias’s mom.

    Lisa

    in reply to: How much more can she endure? #78634
    lisas
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    I also had, in essence, a gastric bypass (gastro j) surgery back in October because my tumor was constricting my duodenum. The surgery made a huge difference ultimately in how I feel and I’m quite confident I wouldn’t be here today without it. That said, it is big surgery and I was not prepared for how long/hard the recovery was going to be. So, wishing your mom a good recovery, even if it does take time. If I can answer any questions, let me know.

    Ps, the nasal gastric tube was the worst. Instant relief when that comes out.

    in reply to: Any tips on wearing infusion pump 24/7 (actually 24/5) #78981
    lisas
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    Thanks, ladies! I have to confess, after Judy’s question, I did an internet search to see if I could find a picture of the pump and more info on it and I found several horror stories of either mis-programmed or defective pumps that dispensed 4 days of meds in 4 hours and the tragic results. Scared the crap outta me. I know the folks at Baylor know what they are doing, but I’ll still be asking them to show me that it’s programmed right.

    And, I’ve decided to just go big or go home. Going to organize a “bling my fanny pack” party and let my friends go wild decorating a fanny pack (or multiple ones) and I’m gonna rock them proudly (sometimes). Maybe we can raffle it off to raise money for the foundation?

    lisas
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    Ah, I’m on the flip side of the patient/sibling relationship than you, I’m the patient and have a sister I am very close to. I think the hardest thing about being sick is leaving my sister at far too young an age (I’m 56, she’s 53), but just knowing you are there helps her immensely. You have so much on your plate so vent away for as much/as long as you want – I think it’s incredibly cathartic and you need that. We lost our youngest sibling nearly 3 years ago (in March). He was 48 and it was sudden and so unexpected. Venting to people who had been there was so helpful to me.

    I agree that people want to help, but often don’t know how. Make a list of what you/your family need. I like krisv’s suggestion above.

    I’m sorry your family is touched by this cancer. In the end, we’re here to listen

    in reply to: percutaneous drain #77474
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    marions wrote:
    Thanks so much, Lisa, for chiming in on this with the informative information.
    Hugs,
    Marion

    Ha. Some would argue TMI! Seriously, though, that placement right where your bra band lays is a huge issue that I guarantee you people don’t think about.

    Good luck with the procedure. You’ll be fine!

    in reply to: New to this Nasty Disease #78140
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    Fabulous blood work is great news. Shrinkage is great news. Sounds like she is just behind me time wise on looking at localized radiation to kill of the tumor. We’ll have to compare notes.

    Best,

    Lisa

    in reply to: percutaneous drain #77471
    lisas
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    Hi, Denise

    I have had PTC drains since October. They aren’t bad (especially since my bilirubin level without them was through the roof and I itched like mad) and my bilirubin is now 0.3 and the awful itching is long gone). They told me I’d be really sore for about 72 hours after putting them in and on a lot of pain Meds, but I didn’t find I needed a lot of pain meds. I was sore – mainly getting up and out of bed or a chair, but it was pretty manageable. I don’t know how long I would have taken off work just having them put in because I ended up back in the hospital for 9 days with another issue and having major abdominal surgery. When I get the tubes changed, I’m back at work (although slow), the next day.

    The thing I hate the most is giving up long hot baths. You can’t submerge them in water. The waterproof bandages work pretty well in the shower (although I now stand with my back to the water as much as possible and always change to fresh, dry bandages after showering). I’ll hate not being able to swim this summer. I live in Texas, we have a pool and grandkids who love the pool. That part will suck.

    I have two drains. One is almost centrally located on my torso and the other is on my right side and lower down. The one on the right makes it impossible to sleep on my right side. Fortunately, I am a left side sleeper. However, I generally try to sleep on my back to avoid rolling over on them and I found using a wedge shaped pillow as a base really helps. My mom found me one at Walmart in Dallas, but I realized they are hard to find in smaller cities (I went all over valdosta Georgia looking for one when we were at my inlaws house).

    The drain in the middle of my torso is a trickier placement, primarily because the male dr and the male OR nurse probably didn’t give much thought to the fact that, while it’s placement may be optimal for drainage, it’s right where my bra band is. I’ve had to limit the types of bras I can wear (the cheapie target sports bra is most comfortable because the band can be sort of rolled up to fit just above the drain). That placement is the one thing I wish I’d known about and raised with my dr when I got them initially, but I had just been diagnosed and my brain wasn’t functioning on all 4 cylinders at the time and I had no idea what to expect.

    When I went in for my latest tube replacement (about every 6-8 weeks, the tubes have up be changed), I mentioned how uncomfortable this was and the doctor doing that procedure moved it slightly lower (guess the nurses told him what I said to them in pre-op). He wasn’t my original surgeon. It has made a difference comfort wise.

    They can and do leak if they get grit in them and since bile is gritty, it’s easy for it to happen. If you start running a fever, it’s important to call your dr ASAP. It can often mean the start of an infection, followed shortly by the drain leaking at the incision site. I’ve gone through 2 different rounds of antibiotics shortly before 2 of my tube changes (both times I sprung a leak). Bile also stains permanently, so I’ve learned to sleep in/wear dark colored t shirts instead of white.

    They have to be flushed daily with a saline solution. I am able to get premixed syringes to flush with. Way better than mixing your own solution. They come individually wrapped. Easy to use and travel with. You’ll develop a system for flushing. I have my syringe unwrapped, uncapped and ready to go in one hand when I take the drain cap off. I also have a wad of toilet paper wrapped around the tube, just under the cap. I go through a lot of toilet paper because when you uncap the drain tube, bile/fluid often bubbles out faster than you can twist the syringe on, so be prepared to catch it before it spills on your clothes. Sometimes my husband will help me, but I can usually manage this on my own.

    The tubes can be uncomfortable when they get jostled. I initially taped mind to my torso to help with that. I’m at a point now, I let them dangle most of the time. Probably not the sexiest look, but hey, whadda you gonna do (to quote tony soprano).

    I personally like the gauze pads that come with a precut drain hole in the middle to bandage the tubes, although you won’t find them at most chain pharmacies.

    I’ve been able to keep my tubes capped most of the time. When I first got them, I wore the external bags at night and I also wear them a night or two after getting the tubes changed. Ask about whether you can cap your tubes or not. If you do and you spring a leak, putting the bags back on can help reduce the leakage you have to deal with and make you feel better (last time, I had a lot of pressure and discomfort in my abdominal area before I put the bags on and actually called my oncologist, because I hadn’t felt that before – putting the bags on really helped relieve that). I always travel with a set of new bags, just in case of an emergency. Also, make sure they give you plenty of extra bags if you have to wear them. They are impossible to find at a pharmacy.

    Hope this answers your questions. Finally, a question I know something about. If you have more, just shout.

    in reply to: CC Video #78932
    lisas
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    Hi! I sent you a Facebook friend request. Look forward to seeing the video.

    in reply to: On the whole, I’ve had better weeks #76380
    lisas
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    I can’t believe I haven’t posted since November. I’ve been reading, but sometimes that’s all I can do. I’ll admit to feeling pretty overwhelmed in November and even visited twice with a psychiatrist because I just felt so depressed and thought I might need some medication. I figured out fairly quickly that, as the dr put it, I was having a normal reaction to a crappy set of circumstances and decided I didn’t need therapy or anti-depressants.

    So, here’s where I am in January. In October, I didn’t know what we were dealing with, but I was Stage IIIB (extrahepatic, perihiliar) at diagnosis. Active localized activity. One lymph node that was inconclusive for cancer cells. Although they were unable to biopsy the actual mass during my ERCP, all tests point to a classic klatskin tumor around both sides of common bile duct, unresectable at this point, as they think it has invaded both lobes of the liver.

    The external PTC drains have worked very well. I’ve had them changed out three times now as they get a bit of grit in them and leak (generally a 6 week lifespan, but one leaked 3 days after replacement and they had to do it again), but they’ve brought my bilirubin level down from 15+ to 0.3. I’m back to a normal color skin tone (for me) and eyeballs. The dreadful itching is gone. We’re leaving the external drains at this point, rather than put in metal stints internally because there is some chance they could come out completely after radiation. I long for the day I can take a long, hot and deep bath or swim again. I hate that these tubes make those impossible.

    I started chemo in November, right after my last post. Sounds like my gemcitibine/cisplatin regime is the pretty standard line of first attack. I’ll finish my 4th round on Friday. I’m on a 2 weeks on, one week off schedule. Baylor goes out of its way to make it as pleasant as possible.

    I did my first post diagnosis MRI/CT two weeks ago. My oncologist said ‘scan is the best we could hope for’ because this blasted tumor is so hard to see on the scans. He says he is convinced the chemo is working well, though, because my blood work looks good and because all the little bile ducts within the liver look great, when they were all so inflamed on the initial MRI.

    I’ve tolerated the chemo pretty well. I get tired and that seems to peak about day 3-4. I’ve had some nausea, but not bad. I haven’t had a huge appetite, but that’s improving. I’m slowly putting on some lbs – I lost 20 to start when I had the gastroj surgery in October. I’ve gained back about 8.

    So, my oncologist presented me with the ‘bold’ plan – instead of finishing the full 8 rounds of chemo, move to IMRT now and see what we can nuke. I met with the radiation oncologist last week. The radiation guy has challenged me to try to gain at least 5 lbs before we start. I’m in on it, although I don’t love the idea of radiating my abdomen, but it seems my best odds to kill this off. While no one is saying never on resection, 3 opinions are that it is highly unlikely. I have my ‘mapping’ appointment set after my next chemo break. One of my friends thought I had a ‘napping’ appointment and was jealous. I’ll do some type of reduced chemo while doing IMRT. Will know more about that Friday. My radiation guy said the gemcitibine really reacts with the radiation, so don’t know if we will change drugs, reduce dosage or what.

    So, that’s my update in a nutshell. I did start a caringbridge page and write there a lot more. I have a great group of supporters. I think that’s key. I really struggled early on with reconciling my image of myself as healthy and fit and active with my new reality as a cancer patient. While it was hard to admit, I was thinking the worst and mentally making a list of who gets what of my possessions. Now, I’m trying to reset my mind to having, as someone put it, a long term chronic condition and going about living with it. To that end, I’m signing up to ride my bike around Lake Tahoe in September. It’s a fundraiser for JDRF and it will my 3rd one. I started doing them after my brother died, at 48, of complications from diabetes. It gives me a target to shoot for and stay fit. Climbing the hills at Tahoe on your bike is no joke. I did it in 2012 and did a 100k in Nashville last year (in fact, two weeks before I was diagnosed). I have lost a lot of fitness since October, so this will be a challenge.

    I’ll try to be a better (i.e., more active) forum member going forward. You guys make me think, nod my head in agreement, shake my head in frustration at how unfair this cancer is, laugh and cry.

    LisaS

    in reply to: Not an official member yet #78364
    lisas
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    I think I fall in the random category. I ate very very little in the way of processed foods or sugar, had no risk factors, exercised a lot and had no health issues whatsoever. In fact, right up to the week my eyeballs turned yellow, I felt like I was in the best shape of my life.

    So, go figure.

    My takeaway is that eating well and exercising have given me the ability to be in better shape to fight this invasion as long as I can.

    Lisa

    in reply to: MDA Consult #77088
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    Hi, Beardme.

    I’m sorry I can’t say how long it takes to get an appointment with MDA, but I did want to share what my treating doctors here at Baylor in Dallas told me about a 2nd opinion at MDA, which was that they would not accept scans, tests or anything from anywhere else and would make me do it all over there and that my insurance would probably not cover that since it has just paid for me to do all of that in Dallas. So, I guess that would be my first question about getting a second opinion there.

    Now, my doctors were not resistant to my getting a second opinion and, in fact, to the contrary, encouraged me to do so and said they would help in any way they could, so I didn’t feel that they were trying to steer me away from getting one.

    I sent my stuff to Dr. Chapman at Wash U/Barnes Hospital (based on numerous recommendations through this board) and he had it reviewed and back to me within days.

    If you are looking to travel for treatment (I’m not sure what is in Atlanta), you might look at Baylor in Dallas. My medical oncologist here is with Texas Oncology and I just found out that he treated one of my close friend’s father (I never knew her dad had cholangiocarcinoma – just that he had cancer). He came highly recommended by every doctor I knew in Dallas (A. David McCollum, MD). My surgeon (if I get lucky enough to shrink mine to where they think it can be resected) is Robert Goldstein, who is head of the living liver donor transplant group.

    I was told by more than one person whose opinion I trust that I was in a better place at Baylor than going to MDA. One of those was a friend’s husband who is a former med school prof, former Chief Medical Officer of Children’s Medical Center and now head of the A&M Health Science Schools.

    Feel free to email me if you have any questions I can answer for you. I’m new to the Board and to CC. I was diagnosed last month. I’m starting chemo tomorrow.

    Lisa

    in reply to: On the whole, I’ve had better weeks #76378
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    Heather wrote:
    Wow!! You have been through it girl!! We are heading to Dallas as in a bit. I’m very curious about these Baylor Drs. My husband is going through Mda right now…and sometimes it seems like they are tip toeing around what they know but don’t want to tell us… I am going to talk to my husband about getting another opinion. Gordon has a 8cm tumor in his liver local lymph nodes involved. Surgery wasn’t a success in August but being re evaluated in a couple of weeks after chemo.

    Glad your recovering okay!!! This is a roller coaster ride!!!!

    Hugs and prayers to you!!

    Heather

    Heather, whatever I can tell you about Baylor or Dallas or anything, please let me know. I literally live about 8 blocks from main Baylor near downtown – no joke. I think my email is in my profile, but it’s steglaw [at] yahoo.com. Email me and I’ll send you my cell, which is best number to get me.

    My friend’s husband who told me I was in the best place is a former UT Southwestern Med School prof, pediatric critical care guy, former Chief Medical Officer at Children’s Dallas and was recently named to head Texas A&M’s Health Science Schools. He’s a smart dude and I’m so glad that his wife shares him with us.

    Lisa

    in reply to: On the whole, I’ve had better weeks #76377
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    Lainy wrote:
    Wow, that is some update, Lisa. Glad to hear you are able to work now, I always think that sure helps a lot in coping and recouping. Blue Cross seems to be a stickler or stinker with our CC. I sure hope they come through for you as if you need that aggravation. Ha, ha I thought I lost my modesty with my first baby!!! I was in labor and when I got up to the Labor room the Nurse says, take all your clothes off and I said what? Here and now? Hang in and hang on, wishing the very best for you.

    As a step parent, there were a few indignities I skipped along the way, which is also why 0 nights in hospital before 56.

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