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  • in reply to: Cholangiocarcinoma #25101
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    I, also, would love to have a couple bracelets. Old or new, it doesn’t matter. I currently wear the Livestrong bracelet, but it would be so much more meaningful to have the one that hits closer to home.

    I will email you thru the website. Please let me know if I can pay for shipping, or for the bracelets.

    Thanks,
    Sue

    in reply to: Chemo, No Chemo…that is the question #24253
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    Kristen,

    I am one of those lucky ones that was able to have a resection with clear margins. My tumor was 5.7 cm X 5.5 cm. I had an extended right lobectomy and they took out my gallbladder at the same time. It is almost two years later, and so far…cancer free! Other than digestive issues and some adhesion pain in my abdomen, I feel pretty good. I do have the knees of a 70 year old, but that has nothing to do with my liver!

    I discussed chemo with my doctor before and after surgery. Before surgery, I was thrilled to hear “no chemo”. After surgery, we talked about it again, and her theory was that there was nothing left to treat, and it hasn’t been shown to have much affect on CC. So, I did not have chemo.

    Now, that said, some days I wish I had insisted. I know that if it comes back, and I hope that I am in that 40% that live longer than 5 years, I will wonder if it would have made a difference. I tend to agree with some of the posters…if he feels like he should do chemo, then he might give it a try. I have no experience with it, but many others on here do and can give you more details of what to expect.

    Given a chance to do it again…Yes, I think I would have insisted. But that’s just me, and so far it has worked.

    Sue

    in reply to: Excellent Logo… #24151
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    OK, weird. At home, the logo looks the same as always…green and brown and not moving (except for the clouds in the sky, like always). Not sure how that is working at the office, but it’s very cool! Will the logo have snow this winter???

    It’s the little things that make you smile sometimes…

    Thanks again!

    in reply to: GERD? #23760
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    Aw yes, the path of true cancer buddies! Sometimes you just HAVE to chuckle!

    Yes, I have had the “pain in the neck” symptom, and I’m not talking about my husband right now!!! We were out goofing around on a Saturday afternoon, visiting my favorite bookstore. I had had gas for days, and by the time we came out of the store, my neck hurt so bad, I was afraid to move. For the first time ever, I actually asked him to PLEASE take me home so I could lay down. I thought maybe laying down would allow more, shall we call it “straight passage”, than sitting upright. And it did help. I have had that pain once or twice since then, but never quite that bad.

    In my unprofessional opinion, I think gas can build up in your system so much, that it fills up the “natural” empty places and sneaks in anywhere else it can. It goes away, sometimes faster than other times.

    Lainy, definitely…fake sugar of any kind is bad for gas. (Or good for gas, depends on how you look at it).

    I ate some ice cream last night (normal, full sugar outstanding cherry chocolate chip…mmmmm) and I noticed that for a few hours after that, I was a burping machine. Not good, when you are trying to go to sleep. Maybe some lactose intolerance? I don’t drink much milk, but I do eat cheese and have only noticed this lately.

    Hope you are all doing good today! I am out from under a tense deadline at work, and it’s supposed to be sunny, if only 50 degrees. And it’s Thursday. I feel very good today!

    Sue

    in reply to: GERD? #23757
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    Hi Kris,

    Yes, this is something I battle everyday. I have been on meds since my surgery (I use Aciphex) and it does HELP, but I still have all the same symptoms you wrote about. I did end up having an endoscopy (scope down the esophagus thru the stomach and into the top of the small intestine) and they had to stretch part of my esophagus, which really did help some. At least it got rid of the sharp burning pain I was having in my chest. The GI said it’s likely that that will need be done more than once. I know my dad had it done many times before he passed away (nothing related to his death).

    I relate to all the gas problems you have been having, but fear that it may be something we have to live with. You might ask your doc about some reflux meds…Nexium, Prilosec, Protonix, Aciphex. Some are over the counter and may help. She said to watch sugar free gum and candies, beans, broccoli, any known “gassy” foods, but I have to admit it is soooo hard to cut them out.

    I figure, so many people live with this everyday, if this is the only problem I have to deal with, I’m okay with that.

    Take care,
    Sue

    in reply to: Vietnam Vets with Cholangiocarcinoma #20666
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    I have found the “connection” between Vietnam and CC to be very interesting. But, here is another facet to this discussion…

    I was diagnosed with intra-hepatic CC in 12/06 and had a resection in January of 2007. So far, everything looks good. I am now 51 (but only by a few days!), was 49 when diagnosed.

    I was never in the military, was never in Vietnam, BUT…my father was career Army, and I DID spend a year on Okinawa when I was 13. (And he DID spend time in Vietnam, and Korea, which has no bearing, except that I am very proud of who he was and what he did for this country.)

    I will never know if this was the “reason” for contracting this disease, but it is an interesting side-note to the Vietnam discussion.

    I certainly hope that they DO prove a connection and make it possible for those who served in the Armed Forces to receive some kind of compensation for this cancer. They were fighting for our freedom and deserve everything we can do for them.

    Thanks to all who serve! (This includes my father, my uncle, my husband, my daughter and my son)

    Sue

    in reply to: And now for some good news… #22707
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    Hi Kris,

    I have been thinking about you too! Did you ever find out anything about your abdominal pain?

    As for the gas, I HEAR you loud and clear! Can you hear me too??? HAHA! This has been something I mention to my doctors every time I see any of them. No real answers tho, so I try to keep it to a minimum if at all possible. NOT always possible! As you said…better belching than farting! Well, at least for your classmates…

    My son (he’s a Green Beret) came back from Afghanistan in June (his 6th tour in Afghanistan/Iraq) and will be home until after Christmas (if all goes according to schedule, anyway). Then he will head back in January for one more tour. After that he should be home for a couple years. He has received two Purple Hearts (for injuries in the line of duty), both in his last tour over there. Please, I hope everyone can send up good thoughts and prayers to get him back home alive and well one more time. He has four daughters and a wife that miss him sooo much when he is gone.

    You sound as feisty as ever!!! Always good news to us!

    Sue

    in reply to: And now for some good news… #22704
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    Jean,

    That’s fantastic news! I think the first few scans were the hardest as I was just certain that the cancer would come back quickly. This is the first time I have had to wait for the results, and I find I didn’t stew over the results too much over the course of the week. I would get side tracked every now and then, off in my own little world, visualizing the doctor calling and telling me “Bad news”, but…then I would go on about my day and forget all about it. (Believe it or not!!!)

    Congrats and keep up the good news! I believe Kris (devoncat) is doing well too, so hopefully we can be the encouragement for cc patients everywhere!

    Everyone on this board, whether he/she is a patient, a caregiver or has already passed has been such an influence on me and my outlook on life. I thank you all for being so strong and willing to reach out to people you do not know, in order to make THEIR lives a little better.

    Thanks everyone!

    in reply to: YOUR PERMISSION IS NEEDED #22331
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    Sophie,

    I plan on sending my letter by the due date. I actually have it written, but want to wait until after my CT scan on Tuesday. It may change my whole outlook…

    And you both have my permission to use anything I have written on this site. I admire both of you for your perseverance and hard work on “getting the word out” on this terrible cancer.

    Thank you both so much,
    Sue

    in reply to: LETTERS*LETTERS*LETTERS* HELLO OPRAH #22405
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    Lainy,

    OK, I have stupid questions:

    I am stumped. I really want to write a letter, but I have no idea how to start, what to say. I mean, I know what I have gone through, but how detailed do I get?

    So far, I am doing fine, beating the odds (next CT scan is Tuesday, the nerves are ramping up…). Do you still want my letter?

    Or do you think the effort to get recognized would work better if you only have letters from people who need more research TODAY?

    Actually, I suppose that if the I am realistic. I WILL need that research, and I would want it to be done TODAY so I could use it in the future.

    But, I am still at a loss where to start. Would it be possible (without prying into people’s privacy) to publish on this site, small quotes from some of the letters you have received? I am not asking out of curiosity and nosiness, but out of a true desire to help, and not being able to figure out how.

    Sorry to be such a dunce. Thanks for any help. I am trying to get this done!
    Sue

    in reply to: Kris (devoncat) ??? #22285
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    Kris,

    This is great news! Well, sort of. I am sorry to hear you are still in pain. Keep pushing for an answer. You will get it eventually. Hopefully it will be easy to fix and you will be feeling happy and pain free. I think about you often, cancer buddy.

    Sue

    in reply to: Good thoughts please #21048
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    Dear Kris,

    I am stunned that doctors can be so heartless. I suppose a medical degree does not make a person empathetic OR sympathetic. But it seems like it should be a requirement, a class you have to pass, or they won

    in reply to: Dumb Questions For Ladies Only #21538
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    HI Irene,

    I didn’t wear a bra for weeks, but when I did start to get out a little, I wore a sports bra. I HAVE to wear a bra when I am in “public”. Trust me, no one wants to see that! I usually wear a sturdy underwire, and that didn’t seem to be a good idea. The sports bra was soft and easy to put on (I got a front loader!) and it did give me some support. I had trouble when I finally went back to work (after about 10 weeks) as I sit at a computer all day and the underwire was tough on my incision.

    Day to day I definitely wore loose tshirts and loose pajama bottoms. I was always cold too (it was Jan-Feb) so I usually had on a hoodie sweatshirt too. And socks. Comfy!

    Luckily, I don’t have to worry about my “monthly friend” anymore either. Yea!

    Good luck!!!
    Sue

    in reply to: Good thoughts please #21044
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    Kris,

    I might have missed a post somewhere, but I was thinking about you and wondering about the results of your scan. Did they figure out where they pains were coming from? Thinking good thoughts.

    Sue

    in reply to: Preparing for Surgery #21438
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    Irene,

    I had about two weeks to get ready for my resection in January, 2007. Here are some of the things I did before surgery:

    1. I pay the bills, so I made sure they were all as current as I could make them. I also wrote down every bill and payment we made each month (and the due dates) so my husband could find the info easily if needed.
    2. I also updated my will, and my husband and I talked about how I wanted to handle things if something happened that would make it impossible for me to make my own decisions.
    3. I got as much sleep as I could.
    4. I did fun things that I knew I would not be able to do again soon.
    5. I wrote down all the phone numbers of family and friends, and made sure they were in my cell phone.
    6. I ate anything that sounded good at the time, which wasn’t really a whole lot.

    You know, it’s funny, but I NEVER considered what would happen if they couldn’t do the surgery. Nor did I worry excessively over actually having the surgery. I knew I didn’t have a choice, so might as well go forward as prepared as I could be, and leave it in God’s hands, aided by my outstanding surgeon.

    Good luck. Think good thoughts. I will be thinking about you. Please let us know how you are doing as soon as you comfortably can.

    You are in my thoughts,
    Sue

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