Dear Madelinewade, welcome to our extraordinary family and I am so very sorry to hear about your F.I.L. Has the Doctor called in Hospice yet? They can be called up to a year ahead of time and they really take over the care and needs of the patient. It is very important to start pain control when the pain begins. Hospice also has a booklet that explains what to expect and it is writeen very well. My husband followed
what they wrote (for symptoms) almost to the T. WHile everyone is different it is a really helpful book. I wish you the best and I wish for your F.I.L. to remain very comfortable.