My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma – Part 2

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  • #42334
    mlepp0416
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    Tom’s blood work was fine today (I was wrong) and he did not need any red blood cells! He had his 2nd round of chemo 5-FU today and is really wiped out today.

    1) The anti-nausea drip bag was not working right, so the nurse pulled it out into a syring and ‘pushed’ it into his port in 30 seconds or less. Tom immediately felt nausea and thought he was going to throw up.

    2) The 5-FU push is supposed to take place 1 hour after the medication bag starts running, but the nurse did not do it until 1 1/2 hours after the bag started, therefore he only had 1/2 hour of the medication (rather than an hour) that is supposed to protect his kidney’s after the 5-FU push

    For heaven’s sake, this is a cancer center where they are supposed to follow protocol to a T and they make mistakes like this?

    They will be getting a call on Monday from me to ensure that it does not happen like that again.

    And I told Tom that he has to learn to SPEAK UP FOR HIMSELF!!!

    He knows the drill and HAS to tell them that they cannot push the anti-nausea medication into his port EVERY AGAIN, and one hour into the kidney medication he has to let them know that it’s time for his 5-FU push! (Wifely talk time again) As he is NOT a little kid and he has to stand up for himself as I can’t be by his side for every minute of every day!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!

    Hugs,
    Margaret

    #42333
    lalupes
    Spectator

    Thinking of you, Margaret & Tom xx

    #42332
    marions
    Moderator

    Pam

    #42331
    gavin
    Moderator

    Hi Margaret,

    Ha! As you say, who knows! Especially so seeing as your youngest daughter is on your case now to get another one! Yes a burning sensation seems to sum it up pretty well the feeling of getting a tattoo done. I got one on my arm years ago and I thought that getting the outline done felt the most strange. The filling in of the outline I didn’t really feel at all. I think the thought of getting it done is worse than actually getting it!

    I look forward to seeing your next tattoo photo on facebook!! And I hope all went well today for Tom.

    Hugs,

    Gavin

    #42330
    pamela
    Spectator

    That is beautiful, Margaret. Good luck.

    -Pam

    #42329
    mlepp0416
    Spectator

    Pam: The tattoo is a pair of Eagle wings, with a green ribbon (liver cancer color) between the wings. Tom written on the left side of the ribbon and Margie on the other. Then “On Eagles Wings” written above the wings.

    #42328
    mlepp0416
    Spectator

    LOL Gavin! No I’m not “planning” on getting any more tattoo’s! But my youngest daughter thinks I need to get one for my children and says she’ll design one and once I see it she thinks I’ll want to get it. But I’ve got the one I want so am not thinking about getting another. Who knows eh?

    I was surprised that it didn’t hurt all that much either. More like a burning sensation if anything!

    I’m sure that whatever Tom has today (chemo or red blood cells) he will do fine!

    Hugs,

    Margaret

    #42327
    gavin
    Moderator

    Hi Margaret,

    Cool tattoo! If Tom does get his chemo today then I hope that it goes well, or if he gets a red blood cell transfusion as you think he may then I hope that that goes well also. Are you planning on getting any more tattoos? I got one years ago and it didn’t hurt as much as I thought it would.

    My best wishes to you and Tom,

    Gavin

    #42326
    pamela
    Spectator

    Hi Margaret,
    What is your tattoo of? I can’t get it to load. Good luck tomorrow with the chemo. My daughter, Lauren is also on 5-Fu. She gets it in a pump over 48 hours. She is also on Gem/Cis. She gets really tired for a couple of days and then bounces back. I am concerned about her platelets, though. They seem to drop more and more each time she has labs before her chemo. I asked them if there was anything we could do and everyone says no. Oh well, take care and best wishes.

    -Pam

    #42325
    lainy
    Spectator

    Yes, the tattoo is great. You are a brave woman, but then we already know that. Pakcer’s look good again! Did I ever tell you that Teddy watches the games with Vince Lombardi? Good luck to Tom tomorrow!

    #42324
    mlepp0416
    Spectator

    Tom goes in tomorrow for his second round of Chemo 5-FU but I really don’t think that they will be doing chemo – after last week all he has done this week is to sleep almost all the time. I thing the 5-FU really knocked him down. I’m betting that he will be getting a red blood cell transfusion tomorrow rather than chemo.

    Did you check out my tattoo yet?

    Hugs,
    Margaret

    #42323
    mlepp0416
    Spectator

    Hope you all like the tat! Tom started back on Chemo this past thursday (Yesterday). Not for the spot on the lung however, his doc is not too concerned about that right now. What she is concerned about is in the liver. Where there were two distinct spot close together have now grown into one spot kind of like a snowman without a head…that means that one of the tumors is growing. Where there used to be a space between them now it looks like one large tumor.

    Initially the plan was to put him on a continous type chemo with a fanny pack, however now they want him to come into the chemo center. First he gets an anti-nausea drug, then they hang a large bag of medication to protect his kidneys and that takes 2 hours. 1/2 way into that back they administer a large syringe of 5-FU (Fluorouracil also known as Adrucil or 5-Flurouraicl) in what they call a IV push over a period of 10 minutes, then the remainder of the medication for the kidneys. He will have this every friday for 6 weeks, then 2 weeks off. After that 8 weeks we will discuss again.

    The 5-FU is an anti-cancer (antineoplastic or cytotoxic) chemotherapy drug. This medication is classified as an “antimetabolite”.

    How 5-FU works: Cancerous tumors are characteried by cell division, which is no longer controlled as it is in normal tissue. “Normal” cells stop deividing when they come into contact with like cells, a mechanism known as contact inhibition. Cancerous cells lose this ability. Cancer cells no longer have the normal checks and balances in lace that control and limit cell division. The process of cell divison, whether normal or cancerous cells, is through the cell cycle. The cell cycle goes from the resting phase, through active growing phases, and then to mitosid (division).

    The ability of chemotherapy to kill cancer cells depends on its ability to halt cell division. Usually, the drugs work by damaging the RNA or DNA that tells the cell how to copy itself in division. If the cells are unable to divide, they die. The faster the cells are dividing, the more likely it is that chemotherapy will kill the cells, causing the tumor to shrink. They also induce cell suicide (self death or apoptosis).

    Chemotherapy drugs that affect cells only when they are dividing are called cell-cycle specific. Chemotherapy drugs that affect cells when they are at rest are called cell-cycle non-specific. The scheduling of chemotherapy is set based on the type of cells, rate at which they divide, and the time at which a given drug is likely to be effective. This is why chemotherapy is typically given in cycles.

    Chemotherapy is most effective at killing cells that are rapidly dividing. Unfortunately, chemotherapy does not know the difference between the cancerous cells and the normal cells. The ‘normal’ cells will grow back and be healthy but in the meantime, side effects occur. The ‘normal’ cells most commonly affected by chemotherapy are the blood cells, the cells in teh mouth, stomach and bowel, and the hair follicles; resulting in low blood counts, mouth sores, nausea, diarrhea and/or hair loss. Different drugs may affect different parts of the body.

    5-FU belongs to the category of chemotherapy called antimetabolites. Antimetabolites are very similar to normal substances within the cell. When the cells incorporated these substances into the cellular metabolism, they are unable to divide. Antimetabolites are cell-cycle specific. They attack cells at very specific phases in the cycle. antmetabolites are classified according to the substances with which ther interfer.

    Folic acid antagonist: Methotrexate
    Pyrimidine antagonist: 5-Fluorouracil Foxuridine, Cyarabine, Capecitabine and Gemcitabine
    Purine antagonist: 6-Mercaptopurine and 6-Thioguanine
    Adenosine deaminase inhibitor: Cladribine, Fuldarabine and Pentostatin

    I will also repost this information in the section of the site so that it does not get lost!

    Love and HUGS to everyone. Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!

    Margaret and Tom

    #42322
    mlepp0416
    Spectator
    #42321
    lainy
    Spectator

    Margaret, it sounds beautiful. Yes, I had 2 kids but in those days they kind of knocked you out! It only took me until lI was 40 to get my ears pierced!! Actually needles don’t bother me at all, guess I figured I have enough freckles don’t need any more art work than that. I always said I swallowed a dollar bill and broke out in pennies!

    #42320
    mlepp0416
    Spectator

    I will post a pic on FB later today. It actually turned out really good and Tom loves it! Could not fit all the words on so it just says “On Eagles Wings” on the top. Only a bit of stinging while it was being done, nothing too bad – Lainey if you have given birth you could do a tat, birthing my children was worse than the tat, and it only took him about 10 -15 minutes to do. And it was only $50.00 – I was a bit surprised at the price but he is my step daughters high school friend and he knows the situation with Tom so I think he gave me a break on the price!

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