Hi Irishgirl,
Firstly welcome to our cc family. You have come to the right place for help and advice. Whilst I can’t give you any answers I’m sure someone else will be along soon. From what I have read this disease progresses differently from patient to patient. My Dad was diagnosed April, his only treatment being a stent. In september we were told he had 3-4 months. Luckily he is in no pain, the only symptom he has ever had is his jaundice. He is slowing down now though, eating little and often. It is heartbreaking seeing one of the most important people in your life go through this. I can honestly say though that the people on this site have helped me so much the past several months.
Thinking of you and hoping your Moms pain will be under control soon
Andrea